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So I don't know how to handle this situation. I've had a crush on this girl for almost 10 years. We really connected when I was younger(went camping with my sister and her husband/friends. This girl was there and at night we stayed up and had this amazing conversation. Shes amazing.) but it didn't turn into anything because she's 4 years older than me.
We didn't stay in touch over the years, but I always wanted to try and date her if the occasion arouse and timing was right.
Well last night while out for new years I saw her at the bar. Talked to her for like 45 minutes. It was awesome. I grabbed her number and we talked for a while today via text.
The thing is, now, she's friends with my ex wife because they work together and she's one of my sisters really good friend. I heard through my sister that she's not really looking for a relationship, but we've had something between us for so long that I want to ask her out. Or should I just try and be friends with her?
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"but we've had something between us for so long ..."
you have. how do you know she has? 
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She asks about me when my sister and ex talk to her I heard. And that camping trip was brought up by her to my sister just a few months ago. But you're right, I hope, but don't know for sure.
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ahh ok. well if they say so, then you are probably correct.
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Ask her out.
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Hopefully, but the circumstances are so weird now. I'm the ex husband of her friend, and the little brother of her best friend.
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Lynea posted:
Ask her out.
That's the plan, but idk if I should try texting back and forth for a few days before. Usually I just ask girls out if I like them, but with this girl its different. I actually care if she says no.
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Itab posted:
Hopefully, but the circumstances are so weird now. I'm the ex husband of her friend, and the little brother of her best friend.
They're only weird if people are immature about it. Life is too short to let someone you care about pass you by.
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give her $40 for a blowjob and see how it goes
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FineYoungCannibals posted:
give her $40 for a blowjob and see how it goes
Only have $17. Damn...
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Lynea posted:
Itab posted:
Hopefully, but the circumstances are so weird now. I'm the ex husband of her friend, and the little brother of her best friend.
They're only weird if people are immature about it. Life is too short to let someone you care about pass you by.
That's true.
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$17 for pics of her sister, whatever just try something
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Maybe she will let me sniff her bra.
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Itab posted:
Hopefully, but the circumstances are so weird now. I'm the ex husband of her friend, and the little brother of her best friend.
Ask her out anyway. Just never never never say anything that could be construed as bad about your ex. Like, ever. If it ever comes up, just keep it to "we just had some differences we couldn't work out" or w/e. Very neutral, no assigning blame to her (even if the whole thing was 100% her fault).
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You should probably text back and forth for a few weeks until she meets another guy, then get drunk and express your self loathing through more texts to her.
And make sure to use a lot of smiley faces.
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BritonGuy posted:
You should probably text back and forth for a few weeks until she meets another guy, then get drunk and express your self loathing through more texts to her.
And make sure to use a lot of smiley faces.
That's my normal routine. Maybe something different is needed this time 
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try to get her to open a fortune cookie...
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Gaevren posted:
Itab posted:
Hopefully, but the circumstances are so weird now. I'm the ex husband of her friend, and the little brother of her best friend.
Ask her out anyway. Just never never never say anything that could be construed as bad about your ex. Like, ever. If it ever comes up, just keep it to "we just had some differences we couldn't work out" or w/e. Very neutral, no assigning blame to her (even if the whole thing was 100% her fault).
This is good thinking. When I saw her last night I said something to that degree.
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But if she opens a fortune cookie and likes me then I don't know...
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fortunes always in w/ the word 'in bed'.
you will so be there.
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dating /= relationship
ask her out and see where it goes.
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Just go for it. She's an adult, if she doesn't want to get into anything then she will say so.
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^ What these last 2 posters said.
Just do it!
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yeah, i'd casually ask her out... like "hey want to grab a drink a night this week?" sort of thing.
don't come on too strong, but just take it easy and see where it goes.
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You have to ask her out or do SOMETHING right away because if you wait to long even a day you will fall right into the FRIEND ZONE!!!!!
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