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What kind of questions do you ask them to get to know them better? (Yes I realize this is ACF and I'm going to get a lot of retarded answers and trolls)
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got AIDs?
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really man, when is the last time you hooked up?
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Caledric
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really man, when is the last time you hooked up?
When was the last time I started dating someone new? 5 years ago... I just filed for divorce from my wife, so I'm re-entering the scene.
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Caledric posted:
Sith_Mauler posted:
really man, when is the last time you hooked up?
When was the last time I started dating someone new? 5 years ago... I just filed for divorce from my wife, so I'm re-entering the scene.
ok you are excused.
I was going to repo your man card. 
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point at her chest and ask "are those real?"
it shows you care
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first thing you say?
you say..hi, my name is cal.
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It's cliche I know, but be yourself
don't push it
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It's cliche I know, but be yourself
don't push it
yep
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first thing you say?
you say..hi, my name is cal.
I'm well past that stage lol... We've already spent 4 hours on the phone together. I'm just stumped for questions to ask her, and she feels like she is grilling me lol. So we agreed to spend today thinking of new things to ask each other and I gotta come up with SOMETHING.
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you know what?
just go do things together. the questions will come naturally.
you may be eating dinner and ask what is your best typs of steak, or you may tell her a story about bbqing a steak and burnign down the garage.
dont push it, dont rush it.
it will all come 
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pick her up in this truck
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-Foxy- posted:
you know what?
just go do things together. the questions will come naturally.
you may be eating dinner and ask what is your best typs of steak, or you may tell her a story about bbqing a steak and burnign down the garage.
dont push it, dont rush it.
it will all come
but if you yank on it, it will come 
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-Foxy- posted:
you know what?
just go do things together. the questions will come naturally.
you may be eating dinner and ask what is your best typs of steak, or you may tell her a story about bbqing a steak and burnign down the garage.
dont push it, dont rush it.
it will all come
When was this that you burned down a garage while bbqing a steak Foxy? And wtf were you doing with the BBQ *IN* the Garage? See this is why the men do the cooking on the grill. We know to take the grill OUT of the garage so it doesn't burn down.
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remember if you get denied dont take it personal, move on and try again.
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Caledric posted:
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you know what?
just go do things together. the questions will come naturally.
you may be eating dinner and ask what is your best typs of steak, or you may tell her a story about bbqing a steak and burnign down the garage.
dont push it, dont rush it.
it will all come
When was this that you burned down a garage while bbqing a steak Foxy? And wtf were you doing with the BBQ *IN* the Garage? See this is why the men do the cooking on the grill. We know to take the grill OUT of the garage so it doesn't burn down.
picky picky 
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remember if you get denied dont take it personal, move on and try again.
It is personal
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If you spoke for 4+ hours already I'm forced to assume she covered the basics... political/religious views, career, goals, likes/dislikes, hobbies, etc.
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favorites and dislikes
Music, Food, Movies, Books, Places, Restaurants, Color, Flower, Gemstone... you get the idea.
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One of my favorite get to know you questions is "what would you do if you never had to work?"
Shows a lot about a person, in my eyes. How would they be spending their life if money was never an issue? I think it's important.
Also, not to make too many assumptions, but since you just got divorced, I imagine you know many more things that do and dont work for you than you did 5 years ago. I would tackle it from that perspective.
I got kinda nervous for that same reason with this last girl (current GF) but then I looked back at my past relationships and realized that I do have standards and don't want to trick myself into thinking everything is peachy when I know something will bother me down the road. Don't be a dick about it, but realize that there are many similarities between pre dating and an interview, but its not the same. If you can't honestly think of anything to ask her that means there is nothing pressing that you want to ask, thats fine. Just talk about something else. 4 hours should have given you enough go-to topics in case you get stuck, AND given you a good idea of some of what shes interested in.
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Jezza_Belle posted:
favorites and dislikes
Music, Food, Movies, Books, Places, Restaurants, Color, Flower, Gemstone... you get the idea.
Those, and then when you find some in common expand on it. Or a genuine dislike, even if she hates something you love it can make for good/interesting conversation. Instead of going for a list of questions, just go for topics to chat about other wise you will run into a lot of dead air and feel like drill sarg's.
That said, meh I hate dating. Last spring I went on a few blind dates and it really does suck trying to strike up conversation with a stranger when you're rusty. Movies are always a safe topic I discovered, love them or not into them, there is still some you've seen that you can share a laugh over.
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