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Subject: *sad face* These past 3 years have been the worst of my life
I haven't posted much, but for some reason I felt the need to let this out.



First my Mom dies, followed by an Aunt,my 2 Uncles, my Dad, and another Aunt just died 3 days ago.

Mom had knee surgery on December the 23rd, came home 3 days later, went back into the hospital the very next day, and never left. She died on April the 5th 2009. She was buried on my Son's 13th Birthday.

Dad, my Uncles and my Aunt all died from pulmonary fibrosis. Basically they all slowly suffocated.

I went from drinking beer with my Dad, and making plans to BBQ on the 4th , to watching him die on the 5th of July. On Sunday the 3rd, I sat with him and kept him company all night, he couldn't sleep, or walk, if he stood up, he passed out. The last thing my Father ever said to me was "I'm sorry you had to see me like this."

*blog off*


 

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ouch

 

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I'm so sorry to hear about it man. sad

 

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Subject: *sad face* These past 3 years have been the worst of my life
all I can say is good speed getting through hell.

I have been through pretty much the same type of situation.

from 2001-2006 a bunch of crap happened involving multiple funerals etc.....................

 

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Subject: *sad face* These past 3 years have been the worst of my life
Sorry man sad  I feel bad for you and your family.  It will one day get better.

 

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im so sorry sad

you have definitely had a bad time of it sad

 

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aon_mixed posted:
ouch


indeed

tough stretch

best of luck to you

 

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Brandun posted:
aon_mixed posted:
ouch


indeed

tough stretch

best of luck to you



Agreed. A hard few years man, sorry.

 

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Subject: *sad face* These past 3 years have been the worst of my life
Is this an April Fools joke?

 

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nope, i do believe i remember seeing the threads about it as it was happening at the beginning

 

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Subject: *sad face* These past 3 years have been the worst of my life
Thanks to all for the responses, and no, not an April fools joke, just a long crappy 3 years. This is just the first time I have posted about it.

 

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Well, sad story then.

 

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Wow, much worse than a stroke and I thought that made my last 3 years bad! love

 

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The_Town_Perv posted:
Thanks to all for the responses, and no, not an April fools joke, just a long crappy 3 years. This is just the first time I have posted about it.


I was going to ask the same question....

dude, you need a bro hug hugs

 

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Damn, what a rough time to go through. I'm sorry you've lost so many in such a short time. sad

 

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Lynea posted:
Damn, what a rough time to go through. I'm sorry you've lost so many in such a short time. sad

 

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I'm as sympathetic as the next guy. However, perhaps April 1 was not the best day to be laying out this story, here.

Rho

 

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Sorry man. That's fricken rough. sad

Hope some good stuff comes your way soon.

 

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I'd say all that qualifies as a crappy 3 years. Hope it gets better for you.

 

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sad rose

 

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Just look at it this way. At least it can't get any worse, right? Only better times to be had in the future. And as long as your family is in your thoughts, they'll be right there with you.

 

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I'm so sorry. It sounds like you've had more than your fair share of grief the last three years. Take care of yourself and your family and be sure to treasure each other.

 

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Lynea posted:
Damn, what a rough time to go through. I'm sorry you've lost so many in such a short time. sad

 

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Rhodoman posted:
I'm as sympathetic as the next guy. However, perhaps April 1 was not the best day to be laying out this story, here.

Rho


Actually, I chose the 1st just to take the edge off of it, so to speak.

Thanks again all.

 

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My mom died of pulmonary fibrosis, was about a 6 month spiral down for her, even the doctor was amazed at how fast it was progressing, so I feel for you on this one.

 

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I'm really sorry you've had to go through all of that, OP. Hang in there. hugs

 

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hugs

have had a few pretty crappy years here too, but things are finally looking up

hang in there hon, you will be ok

 

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seriously think this was posted last april fools day.. around the time i was readign acf last

 

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seriously think this was posted last april fools day.. around the time i was readign acf last


If you think this is a stunt that I pulled, check my post history, I've never been known for that.

 

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seriously think this was posted last april fools day.. around the time i was readign acf last


yeah, who?

 

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i never thought i'd say this

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sorry to hear that...

life can be downright awful at times, but it makes the good times that much brighter. seeing your son (and any other children you may have) grow up will eventually replace the feelings you may be feeling now.

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sucks man sad sorry to hear.

 

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