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I just read this statement:
"I think it's still socially unacceptable to say things to others that we would say to ourselves," Patrick said.
"We don't filter our judgments of ourselves in the same way that we filter judgments of others."
Is that true in your experience?
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Yes. I am my own worst critic.
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Since I'm not a giant jackass, yes, I'll filter what I say. Never a good idea to say everything and anything that crosses your mind.
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Absolutely not.
It's one of my defining characteristics as a human being. I say whatever the hell I am thinking no matter what it is.
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Ptilk posted:
Absolutely not.
It's one of my defining characteristics as a human being. I say whatever the hell I am thinking no matter what it is.
as long as you dont cuss on acf 
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If I said everything I thought people would think I was a nutjob
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Definitely.
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Courtesy almost always requires it.
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People I know will whisper "filter" to me furiously at times. My girlfriend often makes me promise to say nothing if my answer is going to upset people. 
It's funny, I try not to be an ass, so I will just say nothing most of the time, but if you ask me for my opinion, I'm going to give it.
I'm not much for cussing actually. Only on the outpost, where those idiots need to have some reinforcing words or they don't realize you are serious.
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Ptilk posted:
People I know will whisper "filter" to me furiously at times. My girlfriend often makes me promise to say nothing if my answer is going to upset people.
It's funny, I try not to be an ass, so I will just say nothing most of the time, but if you ask me for my opinion, I'm going to give it.
I'm not much for cussing actually. Only on the outpost, where those idiots need to have some reinforcing words or they don't realize you are serious.
The hell you say?
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Yes, i filter myself constantly. I have to censor myself on these forums all the time.
otherwise I'd go around using words like c***, f***, s***, p***, etc...
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myxomatosis8 posted:
Since I'm not a giant jackass, yes, I'll filter what I say. Never a good idea to say everything and anything that crosses your mind.
I filter mine down to giant jackass level.
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For me it is situational. Work, I'll filter - or if I know the person is not comfortable with how I might usually speak/present issues.
Otherwise, no.
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Rhodoman posted:
Courtesy almost always requires it.
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Mangler_SC posted:
Rhodoman posted:
Courtesy almost always requires it.
Rho
This. And when I'm at home I curse all the time, while playing video games etc
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Mangler_SC posted:
Rhodoman posted:
Courtesy almost always requires it.
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Very very rarely
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Often, yes. Between work and the (family members and) people I associate with, I have to.
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Lokkie_the_Fierce posted:
Very very rarely
this
Its on a situation by situation basis though. If someone has a loved one that has passed I dont go up to them and say, "well theyre probably better off dead than living on this stinking planet" or something crude like that.
However if I think someone needs to hear a hard truth whether they want to or not they will hear it. That way there is rarely ever any miscommunication or misunderstanding of where one stands with me. Id rather be upfront and honest with people. That way I dont waste invested time and energy into a relationship/friendship to have him/her find a trait to be undesirable enough to end said friendship.
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Almost never with friends/family, almost constantly with everyone else.
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I try, I often don't succeed when it comes to strangers doing stupid crap with their kids. usually related to taking them outside without covering their feet or not having a coat or blanket for them, even though they put one on themselves.
of course, in the winter time. summertime, people with their babies out in the sun for hours and hours is another rant though.
I don't otherwise really have a need to talk to random people or a have much of a need to edit what I say, as I don't walk around making judgments on everyone all the time. (unless my daughter and I are people watching.)
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i say what i feel or think in a respectful manner...at least try too.
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what do you think?
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No, I say and do anything I want to no matter the company I'm with.
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Most of the time, yes. I usually overthink what im about to say and the moment to say it ends up passing. On other occasions, though, my inner monologue goes walkabout and i just blurt out what im thinking
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-Foxy- posted:
what do you think?
It's not just in the job description, it's in your job TITLE.
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proooooofanityyyyyyy
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Anyone who says they never filter themselves is either lying or posting from a mental institution. Also - silence counts as filtering.
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No I don't.
I was at costco today with my dear mother (she has a costco card  , $50 in my pocket) and I was standing watching the cart in a high traffic area. When another man abandoned his to walk around a pallet. So this lady is pushing her cart up and im like great.. more traffic and she'll want to get past. So I politely push the cart out of the way for her. Not even a thanks. Instant "Hey C-word, say thanks."
So the other night im at work and we have this policy that on Mondays and the last day of the month we stay a extra hour. Well it was leap day and someone politely reminded me we have to stay. So I replied with "Are you s-ing me?" right when a boss passed by us and she turned her head and gave me a puzzled look.
So Friday night after work go down to hit up the strip club for a beer. 5 beers in a bucket for $10. My buddy is a regular and always has a few girls sitting with him. Ranking our boss's in order and I let it out that so and so is a huge C-word. A few girls looked at me for a second then all went back to normal.
I really don't give a F.
Its also funny because Boise is full of Mormons and Nazarenes.
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I filter myself and still regularly say and do horrible things. I am a bit impulsive.
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what do you think?
hey wth...i clicked on cake AND pie..no nakedness..
what gives?
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_sooz_ posted:
Most of the time, yes. I usually overthink what im about to say and the moment to say it ends up passing. On other occasions, though, my inner monologue goes walkabout and i just blurt out what im thinking
i kninda liked this answer too..
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PlieBrac posted:
-Foxy- posted:
what do you think?
hey wth...i clicked on cake AND pie..no nakedness..
what gives?
filtered response ;p
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Yes, my gut is much less kind and considerate than my brain.
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of course. If i said what i really feel somebody might get offended.
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-Foxy- posted:
PlieBrac posted:
-Foxy- posted:
what do you think?
hey wth...i clicked on cake AND pie..no nakedness..
what gives?
filtered response ;p
rofl.... /hug
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most of the time
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all the time. rarely, if ever, do I just let the thoughts in my head dribble out of my mouth.
that amount of useless verbal diarrhea....I'd have to kick my own ass.
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I have to or else it will soon go from saying what im thinking to beating the ever living sh** our of people
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This thread begs the question: do the "women" of ACF use a funnel to get that much sand in their vagina or do they just slide around the beach like an angry Roomba? -deadcactus-
"I could go for some cock"--cute_but_stupid
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Wolfz 
All the world will be your enemy, Prince of a Thousand enemies. And when they catch you, they will kill you. But first they must catch you.