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That when I get mad at them it isn't necessarily the thing that they're doing that pisses me off, but their that their intent was to annoy me with it in the first place, and even after repeatedly telling them that it's annoying, they only ramp up their efforts to annoy. The antagonism is what pisses me off.

 

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because you still respond to whatever they do that is bothering you.

 

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Subject: Why don't some guys understand
Jezza_Belle posted:
That when I get mad at them it isn't necessarily the thing that they're doing that pisses me off, but their that their intent was to annoy me with it in the first place, and even after repeatedly telling them that it's annoying, they only ramp up their efforts to annoy. The antagonism is what pisses me off.


why don't some girls understand that we're guy and we don't think that deeply about stuff...because it's retarded.

if it isn't what he's doing, and you get mad at him but don't say it isn't that...no one is going to understand that, which is why girls will never rule the world, ever.

 

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wtf are you talking about?

 

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We do shite to annoy you.

The only reason we do it, is because you hate it.

Really.

It isn't some ingrained habit we can't stop....it's all aboot making you pissed off.

Why? Well hell, why not?

 

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He probably does it to get a reaction out of you. It's a nicer approach to male bonding...

The other approach is to dig into any little thing you've ever been embarrassed/wrong about and rehash it over and over again.

 

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I think with some guys it's a control issue.

 

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tits or GTFO

 

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why don't you tell him exactly what's wrong then..

nobody likes a guessing game and guys are wired to not care about most of the piddly stuff women do.

 

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why don't you tell him exactly what's wrong then..

nobody likes a guessing game and guys are wired to not care about most of the piddly stuff women do.


I've told him exactly what is wrong about 30 times, and he still thinks I just overreacted to him singing obnoxiously over a song.

 

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You may just be friends with an obnoxious person

 

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getting on the girl's nerves slightly is a good strategy. getting the girl all emotional and aroused is good cuz they misattribute the arousal for feelings for the person doing the poking. the guy is spiking their bp---- basically? and hoping for a favorable interpetation on the girl's part.

thing is, it gets pretty annoying after a while. it's a short-term strategy on the guy's part.

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Jezza_Belle posted:
Tipztoe posted:
why don't you tell him exactly what's wrong then..

nobody likes a guessing game and guys are wired to not care about most of the piddly stuff women do.


I've told him exactly what is wrong about 30 times, and he still thinks I just overreacted to him singing obnoxiously over a song.


It was nickelback wasn't it?

 

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Kordirn posted:
Jezza_Belle posted:
Tipztoe posted:
why don't you tell him exactly what's wrong then..

nobody likes a guessing game and guys are wired to not care about most of the piddly stuff women do.


I've told him exactly what is wrong about 30 times, and he still thinks I just overreacted to him singing obnoxiously over a song.


It was nickelback wasn't it?


no, I encourage everyone to sing obnoxiously over any Nickelback song, it can only be improved.

 

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that kinda sounds like overreacting to me

 

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Lol you're a dramatic girlfriend.

 

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How did I miss this gem?? doh! laugh

 

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wtf are you talking about?

 

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He sang over a song 30 or more times and you had 30 arguments in response? And it isn't the singing that annoys you, it's the evil intent behind the singing. If the obnoxious singing was well-meant, you'd be fine with it.

This story sounds completely realistic.

 

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He sings over songs? Well fk that girlfriend, u need to get yourself a REAL man.

 

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you got mad at him because he sang over a song? Really? I think you're completely overreacting in this situation

 

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you got mad at him because he sang over a song? Really? I think you're completely overreacting in this situation


and the rest of the guys that do not get it have chimed in.

 

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What would piss me off about it is the fact you asked him to stop multiple times which he wouldn't. It isn't so much about the singing at that point. It's more so the fact that he's basically rubbing it in your face.

 

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no... what you and so MANY women dont get is that you arent in charge of anybody but yourself. make your request of somebody but demand nothing.

if the person doesnt meet your request then you do something for yourself like leave them alone or dont play the music around them. not run to a message board to talk about how we dont get it.

 

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Like Jay Z says

If you having girl problems I feel bad for you son
I got 99 problems, but the bitch ain't one.

 

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Wait I think I get it, was it Korn?

 

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Men are stupid we need to be told what to do. The smartest of us just know this and accept it.

 

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Kordirn posted:
What would piss me off about it is the fact you asked him to stop multiple times which he wouldn't. It isn't so much about the singing at that point. It's more so the fact that he's basically rubbing it in your face.


I'm glad that someone gets it...

 

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At least Jezza was an adult, and was able to voice what was bothering her.

 

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Jezza_Belle posted:
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What would piss me off about it is the fact you asked him to stop multiple times which he wouldn't. It isn't so much about the singing at that point. It's more so the fact that he's basically rubbing it in your face.


I'm glad that someone gets it...



From my perspective when I start doing stuff like that it means I have lost interest and its my subconscious mind saying I am looking for a way out of the relationship.

 

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Sith_Mauler posted:
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What would piss me off about it is the fact you asked him to stop multiple times which he wouldn't. It isn't so much about the singing at that point. It's more so the fact that he's basically rubbing it in your face.


I'm glad that someone gets it...



From my perspective when I start doing stuff like that it means I have lost interest and its my subconscious mind saying I am looking for a way out of the relationship.


We aren't in a relationship, or at least not one that would involve doing anything annoying to get out of. It is not a boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic.

 

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[quote=Kordirn]What would piss me off about it is the fact you asked him to stop multiple times which he wouldn't. It isn't so much about the singing at that point. It's more so the fact that he's basically rubbing it in your face.


I'm glad that someone gets it...



From my perspective when I start doing stuff like that it means I have lost interest and its my subconscious mind saying I am looking for a way out of the relationship.


We aren't in a relationship, or at least not one that would involve doing anything annoying to get out of. It is not a boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic.[/quote]

then why do you care?

 

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[quote=Jezza_Belle][quote=Kordirn]What would piss me off about it is the fact you asked him to stop multiple times which he wouldn't. It isn't so much about the singing at that point. It's more so the fact that he's basically rubbing it in your face.


I'm glad that someone gets it...



From my perspective when I start doing stuff like that it means I have lost interest and its my subconscious mind saying I am looking for a way out of the relationship.


We aren't in a relationship, or at least not one that would involve doing anything annoying to get out of. It is not a boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic.[/quote]

then why do you care?

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your world must be all kinds of boring, being just black and white.

 

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So wait this isn't a BF? Now I am really lost.

 

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no I just have friends that dont try and create drama.

I left that stage in high school but I guess some women are addicted to drama.

 

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So wait this isn't a BF? Now I am really lost.


he is someone I go out with, do things for, and have feelings for, but we aren't boyfriend/girlfriend. This is the person I generally refer to as "manfriend". It is not an exclusive relationship, which is why I doubt that he's doing it for Sith's reasons.. there just is no point. I don't think he would have bothered texting me 45 times after I dropped him off trying to figure out why I was mad. Just moments before the obnoxiousness happened he had invited me to dinner/movie.


doesn't make any sense to invite me over and then sabotage it intentionally.

 

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Jezza_Belle posted:
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you got mad at him because he sang over a song? Really? I think you're completely overreacting in this situation


and the rest of the guys that do not get it have chimed in.
I bet some of them get it. tongue

 

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no... what you and so MANY women dont get is that you arent in charge of anybody but yourself. make your request of somebody but demand nothing.

if the person doesnt meet your request then you do something for yourself like leave them alone or dont play the music around them. not run to a message board to talk about how we dont get it.




This.

Your argument isn't 'he doesn't understand', it's 'he won't do what I tell him to do'.

This is a control issue, not a singing problem. You need to realize you can't dictate the actions of your friends. Accept them for who they are or cut ties and move on.

 

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no... what you and so MANY women dont get is that you arent in charge of anybody but yourself. make your request of somebody but demand nothing.

if the person doesnt meet your request then you do something for yourself like leave them alone or dont play the music around them. not run to a message board to talk about how we dont get it.




This.

Your argument isn't 'he doesn't understand', it's 'he won't do what I tell him to do'.

This is a control issue, not a singing problem. You need to realize you can't dictate the actions of your friends. Accept them for who they are or cut ties and move on.




 

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girls are retarded

 

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Jezza_Belle posted:
That when I get mad at them it isn't necessarily the thing that they're doing that pisses me off, but their that their intent was to annoy me with it in the first place, and even after repeatedly telling them that it's annoying, they only ramp up their efforts to annoy. The antagonism is what pisses me off.

Because the other ten women gave in eventually.

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Jezza_Belle posted:
...they only ramp up their efforts to annoy. The antagonism is what pisses me off.


the only important part of your post...

it's a shame that you can write it, but you dont understand what you wrote! tongue

 

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I told you about 30 replies ago...it's a control issue.

 

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Sith_Mauler posted:
Jezza_Belle posted:
Kordirn posted:
What would piss me off about it is the fact you asked him to stop multiple times which he wouldn't. It isn't so much about the singing at that point. It's more so the fact that he's basically rubbing it in your face.


I'm glad that someone gets it...



From my perspective when I start doing stuff like that it means I have lost interest and its my subconscious mind saying I am looking for a way out of the relationship.


That's hardly surprising coming from you.

Also, I can't believe that someone doing something to piss someone off over and over, whether the one being pissed off is a guy or a girl wouldn't bother them. Seriously? Asking someone nicely not to do something, then they continually keep doing it JUST to piss you off is totally cool, and the person being irritated is just overreacting, every time? Gawd.

 

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So wait this isn't a BF? Now I am really lost.


he is someone I go out with, do things for, and have feelings for, but we aren't boyfriend/girlfriend. This is the person I generally refer to as "manfriend". It is not an exclusive relationship, which is why I doubt that he's doing it for Sith's reasons.. there just is no point. I don't think he would have bothered texting me 45 times after I dropped him off trying to figure out why I was mad. Just moments before the obnoxiousness happened he had invited me to dinner/movie.


doesn't make any sense to invite me over and then sabotage it intentionally.



45 texts. Still keeping it real huh Jezza.

 

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That when I get mad at them it isn't necessarily the thing that they're doing that pisses me off, but their that their intent was to annoy me with it in the first place, and even after repeatedly telling them that it's annoying, they only ramp up their efforts to annoy. The antagonism is what pisses me off.


You just explained my last 13 years of marriage. I've learned to live with it.

 

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In my experience, women tend to go overboard about something they find annoying. It's more fun to annoy them more to the point they get REALLY pissed off and then laugh at them for being that pissed off.

 

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In my experience, women tend to go overboard about something they find annoying. It's more fun to annoy them more to the point they get REALLY pissed off and then laugh at them for being that pissed off.



Accomplishes two things. Tests our limits and at the same time exposes us to how retarded we can be, which hopefully desensitizes us to it, so we won't be so controlling/dramatic about other things.

I've been through it, I don't give a ###t much anymore and thus don't have these problems often. I find destroying a good time or worse based on my own irrational annoyances a profanity thing to do.

 

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Cuttlery posted:
So wait this isn't a BF? Now I am really lost.


he is someone I go out with, do things for, and have feelings for, but we aren't boyfriend/girlfriend. This is the person I generally refer to as "manfriend". It is not an exclusive relationship, which is why I doubt that he's doing it for Sith's reasons.. there just is no point. I don't think he would have bothered texting me 45 times after I dropped him off trying to figure out why I was mad. Just moments before the obnoxiousness happened he had invited me to dinner/movie.


doesn't make any sense to invite me over and then sabotage it intentionally.


You sound sound like a bad marriage or a dumb 15 year old couple.

 

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TickyAtack posted:
Jezza_Belle posted:
Cuttlery posted:
So wait this isn't a BF? Now I am really lost.


he is someone I go out with, do things for, and have feelings for, but we aren't boyfriend/girlfriend. This is the person I generally refer to as "manfriend". It is not an exclusive relationship, which is why I doubt that he's doing it for Sith's reasons.. there just is no point. I don't think he would have bothered texting me 45 times after I dropped him off trying to figure out why I was mad. Just moments before the obnoxiousness happened he had invited me to dinner/movie.


doesn't make any sense to invite me over and then sabotage it intentionally.


You sound sound like a bad marriage or a dumb 15 year old couple.



you still alone, or did you decide to give your f*ck buddy a chance? Because you're acting really high and mighty lately.

 

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Very alone cry

 

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TickyAtack posted:
Immortal_Haze posted:
In my experience, women tend to go overboard about something they find annoying. It's more fun to annoy them more to the point they get REALLY pissed off and then laugh at them for being that pissed off.



Accomplishes two things. Tests our limits and at the same time exposes us to how retarded we can be, which hopefully desensitizes us to it, so we won't be so controlling/dramatic about other things.

I've been through it, I don't give a ###t much anymore and thus don't have these problems often. I find destroying a good time or worse based on my own irrational annoyances a profanity thing to do.



The secret's out. shock

 

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Threads like this reinforce my opinion that marriage is always a terrible idea.

 

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Threads like this reinforce my opinion that marriage is always a terrible idea.


I'm already an old maid, I don't hold any hope, or need, to get married.

 

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Well you already have a guy who listens to 30 straight arguments over psychic expectations, so I guess you don't need to get married.

 

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I'm already an old maid, I don't hold any hope, or need, to get married.
Having a kid kinda blew the whole "maid" gig, for ya.

Rho

 

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Very alone cry

hugs



And I don't need to add input.

 

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I was here

 

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