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Been hanging out with this amazing woman for a couple of years(not sexual, I'm dating someone I really like, this is just a friend). She is a BLAST! Funny, smart, Hot, quick witted, all around fun to know. My girlfriend likes her, my friends like her, she is the bomb and shite.
Anyway, my buddy is really into her and has a HUGE crush going on. Cool. I think they make a good match. He is smart and funny, but socially awkward and sorta a derp. She is socially queen god damn bee, everyone loves this chick, but she has made it clear to me she is interested in him, wherein lies the problem....
I could easily fix them up, both trust me and look to me for advice often (scary, but true) BUT....
She is sort of a "free spirit" as in, she has been naked with a LOT of guys. He is sort of a "virgin", only 2 or 3 women I know of he has slept with. He is also pretty much a prude.
So, I could get my friends laid (both of them, with each other) and hope for the best, or I could warn them away from each other and keep the guy from getting all butthurt and crazy when she doesn't instantly want to marry him (as he is absolutely going to want to do if they sleep with each other), or I could just stay the hell out of it, but what fun is that?
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I'd personally stay out of it. They are adults, either it will work out between them on their own or it won't.
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I won't give advice but a prude and a free spirit can lead to the hottest sex
Sexual chemistry is unpredictable and so I'd drop that concern
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I suggest to you the magic of drunk fu.
Then your part is done, and you stay out of it.
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I'd personally stay out of it. They are adults, either it will work out between them on their own or it won't.
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It sounds like the groundwork is already there. Ask them if they would like to double-date or just tell your friend to stop pussyfooting around and take the plunge.
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Why not just tell the truth and let the dice fall where they may?
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Reason I'm asking is there is a party at my house tonight, only about 30 people coming, all fairly close friends. Everyone is supposed to crash here afterward (no drunk driving for my friends), then we get up to a great breakfast cooked by this couple who make the best biscuits and gravy in the universe.....
Had a lot of these parties since I moved here. Always end up being fun as hell. Sleeping arrangements can be somewhat difficult however. I don't have 30 bedrooms after all, or even 15. People have to share. I usually can figure out a private room for all the known couples plus a few left over, and set up at least a private bed for all the singles, though sharing a room with other singles....
I could set it up so these two are almost assured to be alone in bed (solo) in a room with no one but them, or I could set it up so they are in rooms with other people who probably aren't there, as they are "secretly" visiting other people. Yeah, lots of sex going on, whatever...everyone is an adult and aware of whats happening.
I'm pretty sure the match up wont last for long, much as I love both these people, much as I wish it would take....I just don't think it will, he is way too uptight, she is way too non-uptight. I don't think it would be a bad thing for either of them, in the long run, to experience it though, and they might just make it. Be awesome if they did.
God I'm old. Why the hell am I thinking about this crap? Shite happens.....sorry.
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Well you could always go by Oscar Wilde in this case.
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Well you could always go by Oscar Wilde in this case.
If you go with this option, please pair the girls up and leave the camera with them.
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Been hanging out with this amazing woman for a couple of years(not sexual, I'm dating someone I really like, this is just a friend). She is a BLAST! Funny, smart, Hot, quick witted, all around fun to know. My girlfriend likes her, my friends like her, she is the bomb and shite.
Anyway, my buddy is really into her and has a HUGE crush going on. Cool. I think they make a good match. He is smart and funny, but socially awkward and sorta a derp. She is socially queen god damn bee, everyone loves this chick, but she has made it clear to me she is interested in him, wherein lies the problem....
I could easily fix them up, both trust me and look to me for advice often (scary, but true) BUT....
She is sort of a "free spirit" as in, she has been naked with a LOT of guys. He is sort of a "virgin", only 2 or 3 women I know of he has slept with. He is also pretty much a prude.
So, I could get my friends laid (both of them, with each other) and hope for the best, or I could warn them away from each other and keep the guy from getting all butthurt and crazy when she doesn't instantly want to marry him (as he is absolutely going to want to do if they sleep with each other), or I could just stay the hell out of it, but what fun is that?
I suck as a sensei.
How about this:
Tell them both the truth about the other person and let them figure it out on their own.
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If I leave it up to them, she will screw him silly, then bitch when he doesn't call her. He will bitch and moan about the "fact" that women never call him after he meets them. (neither one will ever think THEY might actually call the other one)
These aren't well adjusted, sane adults, they are outliers, the weird, the unusual, the freaks.
I'm just trying to help them get "normal".....actually, I'm just trying to feel ok about not being them. I woke up after I posted this, and realized I don't really give a damn, but thanks for the advice. 
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It should be fun. Like to have one for everyone here, but I don't have enough sleeping bags and some of you guys probably aren't very careful about where you pee. My carpet is new damnit!
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Sit them down and tell them you almost screwed up because you thought about fixing them up then tell them why you decided not too. Maybe they will figure it out from there.
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Didn't you just replace a couch?
Edit: Also, just let them screw each other. They're going to anyway.
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It should be fun. Like to have one for everyone here, but I don't have enough sleeping bags and some of you guys probably aren't very careful about where you pee. My carpet is new damnit!
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Anyone living near or coming near East Tennessee is more than welcome.
I have a "party house". Usually have at least 20 people (usually more like 60) in and out every Saturday night. Come join the fun. No peeing in the pool or going in the garage however, other than that, your limits are my limits.
BTW, I highly doubt they will ever get together unless I push it. He is too clueless to make a move, and she is too used to being moved upon to consider she might have to work a bit herself. Mutual frustration and anger result. Not good, but them getting together probably wont be good either. I need to meet a nun for him and reincarnate Wilt Chamberlain for her...
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How far from Asheville?
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Bout 90 miles. I go to Asheville all the time. My favorite local city. Tupelo Honey Cafe is worth the drive. Damn fine food.
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Yeah. My brother is 5 miles from there in Horseshoe.
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My girlfriend lives in Hendersonville (AKA horseshoe).
Well, 98% of the time she lives here now, but that's her hometown. Her house is just a few miles north of the actual town of Horseshoe on Innesfree lake.
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Actually Hendersonville and Horseshoe are actually different. We had a beer store and gas station in Hendersonville in the early 70s and another beer store in Brevard. We lived in Mountain Home. Did she go to West Hendersonville High? And what year did she graduate?
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She did go to West Hendersonville.
She graduated in ...um...recently.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dolley_Madison
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LOL, maybe I went to school with her mom and dad.
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Her mom graduated from West Hendersonville in 1979.
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I probably knew her. I would have graduated bu we moved back to Oklahoma in 75. I bet I knew her at Rugby. Here's a really left field question.....was her name Elizabeth?
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Nah, Her moms name is Sarah.
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Not sure I would have known her. She would have been in the 7th grade when I was in 9th.
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Just let them know the other person is interested too if they bring it up again, then step out of it. They should be able to make that effort and get together on their own without needing a middleman. I can see how it would be a tense spot though if they are both good friends of yours and things don't work out. Just make sure they know you are neutral territory and there is no custody battle option if they don't work out.
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Small world eh?
Her mom had a kid before she graduated btw. Went on to become a pharmacist, 5 kids total, my girlfriend being the youngest.
EDIt=I'm good now. Woke up finally and realized I don't give a damn about their situation. Not my problem, he either grows up and deals or she stops being her...or they don't end up together. Love em both, hope for the best, gonna be around for them when it blows up. I could help them avoid pain, but then I'd also be keeping them from experiencing momentary joy. Not my call...
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Reason I'm asking is there is a party at my house tonight, only about 30 people coming, all fairly close friends. Everyone is supposed to crash here afterward (no drunk driving for my friends), then we get up to a great breakfast cooked by this couple who make the best biscuits and gravy in the universe.....
Had a lot of these parties since I moved here. Always end up being fun as hell. Sleeping arrangements can be somewhat difficult however. I don't have 30 bedrooms after all, or even 15. People have to share. I usually can figure out a private room for all the known couples plus a few left over, and set up at least a private bed for all the singles, though sharing a room with other singles....
I could set it up so these two are almost assured to be alone in bed (solo) in a room with no one but them, or I could set it up so they are in rooms with other people who probably aren't there, as they are "secretly" visiting other people. Yeah, lots of sex going on, whatever...everyone is an adult and aware of whats happening.
I'm pretty sure the match up wont last for long, much as I love both these people, much as I wish it would take....I just don't think it will, he is way too uptight, she is way too non-uptight. I don't think it would be a bad thing for either of them, in the long run, to experience it though, and they might just make it. Be awesome if they did.
God I'm old. Why the hell am I thinking about this crap? Shite happens.....sorry.
I've rented this movie before. The bowl with the keys....good times.
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LOL
I haven't been to a key party since 1991 or so. Good idea however, maybe I'll try a variation on it next week.
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