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If any event marks the day the military’s gay ban was really over, it came last week, when Marine CorpsSgt. Brandon Morgan, in uniform, jumped onto his boyfriend and the two engaged in a passionate kiss at an on-base military-family homecoming.

A friend photographed the embrace, which later was posted on the “Gay Marine” Facebook page and triggered an outpouring of support — and some dissent.

For the armed service’s most tradition-bound service, the one that most opposed lifting the ban last year, the transition seemed complete when a spokeswoman at Marine Corps Base Hawaii told a local TV station, “It’s your typical homecoming photo.”

The gay rights movement is applauding.

“The photo humanizes us who currently serve in the military and are gay,” said Air ForceLt. Josh Seefried, who co-directs the gay military group Outserve. “The excitement around the photo just goes to show how much society has come in realizing that our families are real and matter.

“The photo also visualizes a military couple who doesn’t receive the same benefits and protections other military couples have under the law,” Lt. Seefried said.

Said Zeke Stokes, spokesman for Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, which worked for the gay ban’s repeal: “This photo and the reaction to it once again underscores that the repeal of ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ is being implemented successfully and is supported widely by the American people.”

“Don’t ask, don’t tell,” or DADT, was the policy adopted during the Clinton administration that allowed gays to serve in the military as long as they did not reveal their sexual orientation and authorities did not inquire about it. It was repealed Sept. 20.

Historic photo

Former Marines contacted by The Times were reluctant to criticize Sgt. Morgan. Some did, but did not want to be quoted on the record.

Former Marine Lt. Ilario Pantano, who fought in the “Triangle of Death” in Iraq, said: “Repealing ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ was a mistake. I have been on record about this topic from the beginning of the debate, and I am deeply disappointed in both the lawmakers and the troops, from privates to generals, that know better but were silent or even complicit in the decay of our societal or military values.

“The mission of the military is to fight and win wars not appease special interests that have spent millions to lobby for DADT repeal and use the military to force social engineering,” the former lieutenant said.

A spokesman for Marine Gen. James Amos said the commandant would have no comment on the photo.

Gen. Amos spoke out against repeal but has worked to make sure the Corps embraces it after Congress had enacted it. Marine recruiters have been required to attend at least one gay pride event.

The news media, too, generally has celebrated the photo.

ABC found the snapshot so historic that the news organization juxtaposed it with the most famous homecoming picture in U.S. military history — Alfred Eisenstaedt’s photograph for Life magazine of a sailor dipping and kissing a nurse during spontaneous V-J Day celebrations in Times Square on Aug. 14, 1945.

A New York Daily News story began this way:

“A photo of a gay Marine locked in a passionate welcome home kiss with his boyfriend has gone viral, sparking a groundswell of support from backers of the military’s policy of allowing openly gay men and women to serve in the military.”

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Sgt. Morgan, returning from six-month deployment in Afghanistan, was engaging in his first kiss with boyfriend Dalan Wells.

“We couldn’t talk, I can barely talk now, his hands went numb, my legs were shaking, our first kiss after just knowing how we felt about each other,” Sgt. Morgan told station KHON2-TV in Honolulu.

Mr. Wells said: “A friend asked, ‘Can we post it on the Gay Marines Facebook page?’ and we said, ‘Oh sure, there’s only 1,000 people on that.’ It wasn’t going to be a very big deal, but then everybody started sharing it. So then that turned into 415 shares the first day, then it’s in the thousands, now it’s everywhere.”

Sgt. Morgan said: “My friend Sgt. Thomas Stivers, he came home and his picture was in the Hawaii Marine [base newspaper] of him kissing his wife and holding his newborn baby that was just born a few days ago. His picture is no different than mine. It is a homecoming picture. Gay, straight, lesbian — no matter who you are, love is love.”

“All my superiors, my staff sergeants, my gunnery sergeants, my lieutenants, my officers, my captains, they’re all very ecstatic and very happy that I had somebody to come home to,” Sgt. Morgan said. “Again, gay or straight, does not matter.”

The “Gay Marine” Facebook page posted the photo Saturday, triggering 41,229 “likes” as of Wednesday afternoon, and 10,020 comments. A sampling shows most are positive.

“This is TRUE bravery!” reads one. “The most insidious enemy we face in the struggle for equality is internalized homophobia. Kudos to any and every one who comes out for any and all to see!!”

But one commenter wrote: “I am a Marine and this does not reflect the Marine Corps at all!! If I was to come back from a deployment and my wife jumped on me like that I’d prolly get my ass chewed because u do not do public displays of affection in uniform. … This guy was just lookin for some attention.”

In an indoctrination slide-show presentation the Pentagon developed last year to prepare troops for the ban’s repeal, one scenario asked: What does a commander do if he sees two male Marines, or of another service, kissing in a shopping mall in civilian clothes?

The slide said the commander should ask, Is this within standards of personal and professional conduct?

The answer: “If the observed behavior crosses acceptable boundaries as defined in the standards of conduct for your unit and the Marine Corps, then an appropriate correction should be made. Your assessment should be made without regard to sexual orientation.”

http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2012/mar/1/gay-marines-kiss-sparks-praise-anger/?page=all#pagebreak

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its couldnt have been lesbians?

 

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=paw_2EJBzFs&feature=related


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TURN THEM INTO A PARKING LOT!!!

 

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much better thanks

 

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to me, this is far more compelling than a couple of FYC wannabes swapping mustache lint

 

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If that is "in your face" you've never been pier side at a ship's homecoming, heh.

 

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The "love that dare not speak its name" (Oscar Wilde) has become the "love we can't get to sit down and shut up."

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The "love that dare not speak its name" (Oscar Wilde) has become the "love we can't get to sit down and shut up."

Rho


So what?

 

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The "love that dare not speak its name" (Oscar Wilde) has become the "love we can't get to sit down and shut up."

Rho



So you're mad it's "on par" with heterosexuality?

 

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Allmightybob_MLF posted:
Rhodoman posted:
The "love that dare not speak its name" (Oscar Wilde) has become the "love we can't get to sit down and shut up."

Rho
So you're mad it's "on par" with heterosexuality?
Your reply contains two misteaks.


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it's disgusting how couples are always doing stuff just to get attention. sometimes you see them walking down the street holding hands - they might as well be shouting, "LOOK EVERYONE WE DO EACH OTHER!". wow, gj showing off to everyone that you are finally sexually active. then they want to push everyone's buttons by making out! ugh! the worst part is when the chick is like 10 times hotter than the dude and ur like: "WTF, ugly guy should stick to ugly chicks so us hot guys can have more." you know?

 

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aon_mixed posted:
to me, this is far more compelling than a couple of FYC wannabes swapping mustache lint





This guy came home this week, shy a few limbs. My dad follows him on FB. Truly inspiring.

 

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The "love that dare not speak its name" (Oscar Wilde) has become the "love we can't get to sit down and shut up."

Rho


So what?


Normal people don't jump up and down screaming about how normal they are.

 

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JD_HOGG posted:
_Gimpzilla_ posted:
Rhodoman posted:
The "love that dare not speak its name" (Oscar Wilde) has become the "love we can't get to sit down and shut up."

Rho


So what?


Normal people don't jump up and down screaming about how normal they are.


Also, its so easy to go againt the non PC opinion


I agree with Rho



We get it, you're Gay.. its all good, lets move on

 

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You're gay jokes! ke ke ke!

 

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JD_HOGG posted:
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The "love that dare not speak its name" (Oscar Wilde) has become the "love we can't get to sit down and shut up." Rho
So what?
Normal people don't jump up and down screaming about how normal they are.
thats because you dont have to...its already accepted as the "way to be" in general society.  

Turn on any television or pick up any magazine and you see straight sex glorified all over the place.  Its so ingrained into people that no one questions it when they see a straight couple making out or holding hands. 

Thats like saying to a black person back in the 60's. "you dont see white people complaining about sitting in the back of the bus do you?" 

Its about changing people's mindsets along with the laws.

 

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Hey man, whatever floats your boat.

 

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While i think it's wonderful that this could even happen (DADT was such a freaking joke, good riddance...), i do agree with the guy who said about PDA's in uniform. If a straight couple would get a bollocking for doing something, so should a gay couple. Otherwise you're taking it to the other extreme and letting gay couples get away with stuff straight couples cant. Equality should be true equality, IMO.

 

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We get it, you're Gay.. its all good, lets move on





sounds like it makes you uncomfortable since you want to avoid the subject so much. all the more reason to rub it in your face. if i grew up with all that stigma about the way I was, having to hide my own sexuality due to the fear of what others might think, then i might flaunt it when i finally got over my fears. to be free from the fear of being judged negatively by society is a big deal if you've had that anxiety for a long time. it's a haters gonna hate gay strut.



if someone feels the need to flaunt it, i think it's totally understandable. People flaunt all sorts of ridiculous things and it usually doesn't bother anyone. try having an imagination. flag

 

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While i think it's wonderful that this could even happen (DADT was such a freaking joke, good riddance...), i do agree with the guy who said about PDA's in uniform. If a straight couple would get a bollocking for doing something, so should a gay couple. Otherwise you're taking it to the other extreme and letting gay couples get away with stuff straight couples cant. Equality should be true equality, IMO.
while thats true, I think its one of those unspoken rules that only gets enforced when they have no other way to "make a point."  If they cant get you with DADT they'll dig up some other ludicrous law thats "on the books" but never really enforced to cause more trouble for gay people.  Thats happened not only in the armed services but in civilian cities too like ones in Texas and other places.(people being arrested under old sodomy laws and buggery laws that haven been enforced since the late 1800 to early 1900's)

I like this article/blog from last year about it. It is this guy's opinion but he sites alot of the Supreme Court rulings dealing with it.

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2011/03/10/954395/-State-sponsors-terrorism-against-gays

 

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You mean like the boy who got a 10 year prison sentence for getting a blowie from a girl? He served over a year before they let him out.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,305396,00.html

 

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Sodomy laws were/are in place for a reason.

 

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you probably wouldn't get mad at a rich guy flaunting his wealth. make it a gay guy flaunting his gayness and suddenly people strangely get retarded about it.

don't flaunt your gayness though, a bunch of old straight men might get weirded out!

 

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you probably wouldn't get mad at a rich guy flaunting his wealth. make it a gay guy flaunting his gayness and suddenly people strangely get retarded about it.

don't flaunt your gayness though, a bunch of old straight men might get weirded out!


You stop flaunting your fancy pants Mr. Fancy Pants.

 

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he looks kind of gay.

 

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Sodomy laws were/are in place for a reason.




Exactly. That's why mangler only has sex with women in missionary posistion. Never receives oral since that would be sodomy.

 

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In a Ye Olde School kind of way.

 

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you probably wouldn't get mad at a rich guy flaunting his wealth. make it a gay guy flaunting his gayness and suddenly people strangely get retarded about it. don't flaunt your gayness though, a bunch of old straight men might get weirded out!
it also depends on your definition of "flaunting." To some people just seeing a gay couple kiss or hold hands in public is flaunting.  To me thats not, thats just being "normal" like any other straight couple would do.  

Now what they do at gay pride parades stripping down to their underwear and flying rainbow colored flags and streamers and crap like that can go stuff themselves.  They give the gay community a bad name.  Do you really need a parade to celebrate your sexuality?

 

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all the more reason to rub it in your face.
This is the kind of idiotic behavior we grown ups have to put up with, nowadays.

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Make it a straight couple, and nobody complains about flaunting their straightness or shoving the heterosexuality down people's throats.

If you still find public gay behavior objectionable, you're an asshole.

Get over it.

 

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all the more reason to rub it in your face.
This is the kind of idiotic behavior we grown ups have to put up with, nowadays.

Rho




young people as a group are less weirded out by loud gay people. the old generation's opinion is quickly becoming a minority. soon the old generation will be those weird grandparents who get all bigoty about stuff and the younger relatives just ignore it and let them sit in the corner.


the sooner you grasp that your opinion is just another silly cultural belief that this generation has no use for, the more smart you will seem.

 

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all the more reason to rub it in your face.
This is the kind of idiotic behavior we grown ups have to put up with, nowadays.

Rho
young people as a group are less weirded out by loud gay people. the old generation's opinion is quickly becoming a minority. soon the old generation will be those weird grandparents who get all bigoty about stuff and the younger relatives just ignore it and let them sit in the corner.

the sooner you grasp that your opinion is just another silly cultural belief that this generation has no use for, the more smart you will seem.
You seem to know a lot about me. Mostly, young people (also as a group) continue to act foolishly until they grow up.

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Make it a straight couple, and nobody complains about flaunting their straightness or shoving the heterosexuality down people's throats.

If you still find public gay behavior objectionable, you're an asshole.

Get over it.


You mean you've never heard anyone yell GET A ROOM at a couple making out in public? You must be a cave dweller.

 

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Sodomy laws were/are in place for a reason.


Exactly. That's why mangler only has sex with women in missionary posistion. Never receives oral since that would be sodomy.
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Make it a straight couple, and nobody complains about flaunting their straightness or shoving the heterosexuality down people's throats.

If you still find public gay behavior objectionable, you're an asshole.

Get over it.


You mean you've never heard anyone yell GET A ROOM at a couple making out in public? You must be a cave dweller.


Personally i dont like major PDA's, and i dont care whether the couple is gay, straight or whatever. Want to hold hands, or put your arm around your partner or exchange a quick kiss in public? Fine. Start snogging and groping like you're getting ready to have sex and i will get grossed out. But that's just me.

 

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 Do you really need a parade to celebrate your sexuality?



Your one misteak is in asking the incorrect question. You should be asking why shouldn't people be allowed to have a parade about their sexuality? That is how freedom works.

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 Do you really need a parade to celebrate your sexuality?



Your one misteak is in asking the incorrect question. You should be asking why shouldn't people be allowed to have a parade about their sexuality? That is how freedom works.

-Rho, not a hypocritical libertarian.


Except you ignore the fact that the people who don't want a sexuality parade on their street are also free. Whose freedom should win out? Let me guess, the one you like better. Oppressor.

 

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Make it a straight couple, and nobody complains about flaunting their straightness or shoving the heterosexuality down people's throats.

If you still find public gay behavior objectionable, you're an asshole.

Get over it.


You mean you've never heard anyone yell GET A ROOM at a couple making out in public? You must be a cave dweller.



This is certainly true, but what culturally obsolete people like you and rho fail to realize is that you attribute different motivations to a gay couple as you do a straight one kissing. With straight people, you neanderthals see it as "you are too passionate, GET A ROOM" but with gay couples, people like you see it as "they are trying to force their ideals down my throat, this is a social conspiracy to make an alternative lifestyle mainstream!!!"

I wish you guys would realize how ignorant you are. They arent kissing passionately to make a political statement, and if you think they are you are a total dumbass, no two ways about it, it's moronic on the face of it. But again, we don't expect neanderthals to evolve with us, we just know they will die off soon so the evolved people can get on with our lives.

 

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Make it a straight couple, and nobody complains about flaunting their straightness or shoving the heterosexuality down people's throats.

If you still find public gay behavior objectionable, you're an asshole.

Get over it.


You mean you've never heard anyone yell GET A ROOM at a couple making out in public? You must be a cave dweller.



This is certainly true, but what culturally obsolete people like you and rho fail to realize is that you attribute different motivations to a gay couple as you do a straight one kissing. With straight people, you neanderthals see it as "you are too passionate, GET A ROOM" but with gay couples, people like you see it as "they are trying to force their ideals down my throat, this is a social conspiracy to make an alternative lifestyle mainstream!!!"

I wish you guys would realize how ignorant you are. They arent kissing passionately to make a political statement, and if you think they are you are a total dumbass, no two ways about it, it's moronic on the face of it. But again, we don't expect neanderthals to evolve with us, we just know they will die off soon so the evolved people can get on with our lives.


I didn't call you a name, why the need to call me a name? Is that how you make a point? Try again without coming across like a dick.

 

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 Do you really need a parade to celebrate your sexuality?



Your one misteak is in asking the incorrect question. You should be asking why shouldn't people be allowed to have a parade about their sexuality? That is how freedom works.

-Rho, not a hypocritical libertarian.


Except you ignore the fact that the people who don't want a sexuality parade on their street are also free. Whose freedom should win out? Let me guess, the one you like better. Oppressor.


Straight people are such victims in our society rolling_eyes

 

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Straight people are such victims in our society rolling_eyes


No, just you are. Everyone else on the planet has it easy. You are the only victim.

 

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Straight people are such victims in our society rolling_eyes


No, just you are. Everyone else on the planet has it easy. You are the only victim.


No way! You are!

 

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 Do you really need a parade to celebrate your sexuality?
Your one misteak is in asking the incorrect question. You should be asking why shouldn't people be allowed to have a parade about their sexuality? That is how freedom works.

-Rho, not a hypocritical libertarian.
People have been having a parade about their sexuality in San Francisco for decades, now.

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This is certainly true, but what culturally obsolete people like you and rho fail to realize is that you attribute different motivations to a gay couple as you do a straight one kissing. With straight people, you neanderthals see it as "you are too passionate, GET A ROOM" but with gay couples, people like you see it as "they are trying to force their ideals down my throat, this is a social conspiracy to make an alternative lifestyle mainstream!!!"

I wish you guys would realize how ignorant you are. They arent kissing passionately to make a political statement, and if you think they are you are a total dumbass, no two ways about it, it's moronic on the face of it. But again, we don't expect neanderthals to evolve with us, we just know they will die off soon so the evolved people can get on with our lives.
True ignorance is being incorrectly confident that you know what other people think.

Read what I write, not what your assumptions about me lead you to believe.

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Make it a straight couple, and nobody complains about flaunting their straightness or shoving the heterosexuality down people's throats.

If you still find public gay behavior objectionable, you're an asshole.

Get over it.


How many homosexuals can you shove down your throat?


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IF you think they are, you are a total dumbass. I am not calling names. I stand by that statement. We all laugh at conspiracy theory nuts who think that a million government employees who dont communicate can ALL be in on something, but you guys dont bat an eye when someone straight up claims that the millions and millions of gay people are just part of a conspiracy to gay-ify america, and not just doing whats natural. Seriously, it's beyond paranoid. Conservatives care MORE about what gay people do than the actual gay people. I'll tell you what, i have never kissed a girl in public to make a statement about the acceptability of heterosexuality. I have, in fact, ONLY kissed a girl in public because whatever was going on at the time inspired me to kiss her. Thinking that gay people are any different is effing stupid. And IF that is what you do, I don't mind calling you out on it one bit.

EDIT: LOL Rho in classic form. You make an indefensible point, and when confronted with the facts, you make a vague content-free comment about how you aren't understood to appear wise. "some people when they think something, dont really know what they think." or something equally vapid. Does anyone else notice how at a certain point Rho stops actually saying ANYTHING and just starts making those lil "truisms." So how about this, rather than saying something without content, point out to me what assumptions I made that dont actually line up with your views, actually SAY something

 

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IF you think they are, you are a total dumbass. I am not calling names. I stand by that statement. We all laugh at conspiracy theory nuts who think that a million government employees who dont communicate can ALL be in on something, but you guys dont bat an eye when someone straight up claims that the millions and millions of gay people are just part of a conspiracy to gay-ify america, and not just doing whats natural. Seriously, it's beyond paranoid. Conservatives care MORE about what gay people do than the actual gay people. I'll tell you what, i have never kissed a girl in public to make a statement about the acceptability of heterosexuality. I have, in fact, ONLY kissed a girl in public because whatever was going on at the time inspired me to kiss her. Thinking that gay people are any different is effing stupid. And IF that is what you do, I don't mind calling you out on it one bit.
I don't necessarily blame the couples in the pictures for being purposely-overt in their PDA for any reasons other than mutual affection. What *is* clear is that the re-posting re-forwarding and viral spreading of the images on the net are often accompanied by specific language that clearly explains the image's presence as attempting to make a social and/or political statement. A statement that I'm weary of hearing.

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IF you think they are, you are a total dumbass. I am not calling names. I stand by that statement. We all laugh at conspiracy theory nuts who think that a million government employees who dont communicate can ALL be in on something, but you guys dont bat an eye when someone straight up claims that the millions and millions of gay people are just part of a conspiracy to gay-ify america, and not just doing whats natural. Seriously, it's beyond paranoid. Conservatives care MORE about what gay people do than the actual gay people. I'll tell you what, i have never kissed a girl in public to make a statement about the acceptability of heterosexuality. I have, in fact, ONLY kissed a girl in public because whatever was going on at the time inspired me to kiss her. Thinking that gay people are any different is effing stupid. And IF that is what you do, I don't mind calling you out on it one bit.
I don't necessarily blame the couples in the pictures for being purposely-overt in their PDA for any reasons other than mutual affection. What *is* clear is that the re-posting re-forwarding and viral spreading of the images on the net are often accompanied by specific language that clearly explains the image's presence as attempting to make a social and/or political statement. A statement that I'm weary of hearing.

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BULL, you made it quite clear that you wish they would "sit down and shut up." But go ahead, mask your bigotry, you are good at that

 

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Make it a straight couple, and nobody complains about flaunting their straightness or shoving the heterosexuality down people's throats.


This.

Turn on the TV. Open a magazine. Go to almost any type of event. Hell, freaking read ACF: Look at her boobs. I'd hit McCain's daughter. Etc. Bunch of straight men "flaunting" their straightness. Almost every moment of every day I am confronted by heterosexuals.

Yet straight people claim WE are the ones flaunting our sexuality. Apparently, we should just post about the hot chick we banged at the club last night.

rolling_eyes

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Like aneurysm mad.

 

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BULL, you made it quite clear that you wish they would "sit down and shut up."
Folks like Anebriated who insist that this issue needs to be "rubbed in your face" are the ones who need to sit down and shut up. That much *was* clear. You conclude I am a bigot incorrectly.

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Make it a straight couple, and nobody complains about flaunting their straightness or shoving the heterosexuality down people's throats.


This.

Turn on the TV. Open a magazine. Go to almost any type of event. Hell, freaking read ACF: Look at her boobs. I'd hit McCain's daughter. Etc. Bunch of straight men "flaunting" their straightness. Almost every moment of every day I am confronted by heterosexuals.

Yet straight people claim WE are the ones flaunting our sexuality. Apparently, we should just post about the hot chick we banged at the club last night.

rolling_eyes

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Nothing stopping you from making a "look at this dude's package" thread.

 

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Nothing stopping you from making a "look at this dude's package" thread.
How would the motorboating work for that, exactly?

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BULL, you made it quite clear that you wish they would "sit down and shut up."
Folks like Anebriated who insist that this issue needs to be "rubbed in your face" are the ones who need to sit down and shut up. That much *was* clear. You conclude I am a bigot incorrectly.

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Oh weird, you are a psychic then, posting that BEFORE he had a chance to say anything. Wow Rho, well played. Nope, more BS. You dislike homosexuals on a fundamental level, and you simply don't want them around doing their thing. It's fine to have your own belief, it doesn't keep me up at night, but it does make you a bigot. No two ways about it.

I am wearing a black shirt, others dislike black shirts. They can't demand that I wear a new shirt, but they sure as hell can correct me when I say it is a red shirt. Just as you are a bigot regardless of how you feel about yourself and your views. I'm not going to say that's fine, but as long as you are cool with that, good on ya

 

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Like shake a baby mad.

 

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Make it a straight couple, and nobody complains about flaunting their straightness or shoving the heterosexuality down people's throats.


This.

Turn on the TV. Open a magazine. Go to almost any type of event. Hell, freaking read ACF: Look at her boobs. I'd hit McCain's daughter. Etc. Bunch of straight men "flaunting" their straightness. Almost every moment of every day I am confronted by heterosexuals.

Yet straight people claim WE are the ones flaunting our sexuality. Apparently, we should just post about the hot chick we banged at the club last night.

rolling_eyes

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Nothing stopping you from making a "look at this dude's package" thread.



Ebon's got this covered...

http://vnboards.ign.com/acfriends/b5258/116228909/r116229187/



Also, no one mentioned the fact that this guy's BF is a freaking mutant giant?? shock

 

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The only problem I have with gay people is that they somehow stole a perfectly good word that meant you were feeling particularly happy. In one heartless act of word theft, a small number of people managed to make it impossible for the rest of the world to be gay.

 

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it impossible for the rest of the world to be gay.


You can still use the word gay, but you're so homophobic that you couldn't possibly associate with that word.

 

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lol, I am amused happy

 

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BULL, you made it quite clear that you wish they would "sit down and shut up."
Folks like Anebriated who insist that this issue needs to be "rubbed in your face" are the ones who need to sit down and shut up. That much *was* clear. You conclude I am a bigot incorrectly.

Rho


And Rho, it's words like INSIST that make it clear you are a bigot. What he has been saying literally the whole time is "why shouldnt it be OK for gay people to be outgoing?" and you see that as INSISTING that gross gayness is EVERYWHERE and RUBBED in your face. You said something about assumptions? lol

It's like when people suggested that schools should be integrated, and people (likely your parents, apples and trees and whatnot) claimed that those people wanted everyone to be mixed race and white people to be obsolete. When you hear it that way, you are clearly biased. When gays are allowed to marry and you are positive your sheep are about to get raped, it means you have ridiculous assumptions. When you have ridiculous assumptions about a group of people (as you do) you are a bigot

 

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Like stolen cloud song mad.

 

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So mad.

Like shake a baby mad.



Just hand me a baby before Rho starts to cry, I gotta find some release

 

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I just wanna be able to go out and have an ice cream cone with my daughter and not have her be subjected to this...

 

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it impossible for the rest of the world to be gay.


You can still use the word gay, but you're so homophobic that you couldn't possibly associate with that word.


You could use the word but it doesn't have the same meaning. Someone wearing a spiderman mask and assless chaps will run up and bugger you if you yell out "HEY GUYS I AM GAY!!!" True story, minister Phelps told me.

 

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So mad.

Like shake a baby mad.



Just hand me a baby before Rho starts to cry, I gotta find some release


Rho seems the calm one



 

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I just wanna be able to go out and have an ice cream cone with my daughter and not have her be subjected to this...


Well you better not take her to San Francisco for ice cream on Gay Pride day.

 

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I just wanna be able to go out and have an ice cream cone with my daughter and not have her be subjected to this...



You're in a bad area of town if the ice cream shop you're going to has these people walking around outside.

 

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You could use the word but it doesn't have the same meaning. Someone wearing a spiderman mask and assless chaps will run up and bugger you if you yell out "HEY GUYS I AM GAY!!!"


If you have a problem with that then you are a bigot.

 

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John Travolta was awesome in that movie

 

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 Do you really need a parade to celebrate your sexuality?
Your one misteak is in asking the incorrect question. You should be asking why shouldn't people be allowed to have a parade about their sexuality? That is how freedom works.

-Rho, not a hypocritical libertarian.
People have been having a parade about their sexuality in San Francisco for decades, now.

Rho


I went to it. I didn't see anything wrong with it. so why shouldn't they just carry on? nobody is forcing you to watch it.

I even got to see some lesbians flaunting their boobs. shame on them!

 

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I just wanna be able to go out and have an ice cream cone with my daughter and not have her be subjected to this...


HOW DARE YOU HAVE THAT OPINION!!!

The PC Police will be at your house any minute now for your public caning


YOU HAVE IT COMING!! YOU INSENSITIVE SON OF A BITCH!!!!

 

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HOW DARE YOU HAVE THAT OPINION!!!

The PC Police will be at your house any minute now for your public caning


YOU HAVE IT COMING!! YOU INSENSITIVE SON OF A BITCH!!!!



When you want to censor something you believe to be harmful, (for example sex and violence on TV) that makes you the PC crusader. Your just using the term to apply its negativity without actually understanding what it means.

 

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nobody cares what you do, just stfu about it

 

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gays and atheist are the worst at spreading their agendas

nobody cares what you do, just stfu about it


I see how you slipped atheists in there to see if you could really blow this thread up, you are one sly dawg.

 

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Make it a straight couple, and nobody complains about flaunting their straightness or shoving the heterosexuality down people's throats.
This. Turn on the TV. Open a magazine. Go to almost any type of event. Hell, freaking read ACF: Look at her boobs. I'd hit McCain's daughter. Etc. Bunch of straight men "flaunting" their straightness. Almost every moment of every day I am confronted by heterosexuals. Yet straight people claim WE are the ones flaunting our sexuality. Apparently, we should just post about the hot chick we banged at the club last night. /e gets off his gay soapbox and goes back to his regular every day life
careful Lokkie, thats what Ive been saying on these boards for years now..itll get you labeled a flamer :P

 

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/points laughs at gay people shoving their tongues down each others throats to appear normal.

 

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HOW DARE YOU HAVE THAT OPINION!!!

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YOU HAVE IT COMING!! YOU INSENSITIVE SON OF A BITCH!!!!



When you want to censor something you believe to be harmful, (for example sex and violence on TV) that makes you the PC crusader. Your just using the term to apply
its negativity without actually understanding what it means.



The same way kordin uses bigot



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So mad.

Like shake a baby mad.



Just hand me a baby before Rho starts to cry, I gotta find some release


Rho seems the calm one






He does seem that way. It's important to look beyond "seems." Like I said, he makes his position, someone refutes it thoroughly, and he posts some mild, laid back kind of half comment, that doesn't say anything, just let's people know that "boy, they sure have alot of growin up to do." He pulls it off with the kind of Bush charm, you know, sounds kinda dumb but confident enough that you just kind of mildly nod your head.

 

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bob you're using reason on an irrational person. allow me to encapsulate brandun's posts very crudely and condescendingly in one word: emotional.

bob is like, hey brandun you don't need to listen to your fear of the rollercoaster, you're statistically more likely to die on your way to work tomorrow but brandun is all, BUT I HAS EMOTION.

 

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[quote=Rhodoman]The "love that dare not speak its name" (Oscar Wilde) has become the "love we can't get to sit down and shut up."

Rho


So what?


Normal people don't jump up and down screaming about how normal they are.


Also, its so easy to go againt the non PC opinion


I agree with Rho



We get it, you're Gay.. its all good, lets move on [/quote]

Bigot. happy

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You'd think the guy who railed against Caoilin for "misspelling" Intex's name wouldn't make the same mistake.

 

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I just wanna be able to go out and have an ice cream cone with my daughter and not have her be subjected to this...
for the record I dont think most of the gay community would want to be exposed to that either while going for ice cream :P

 

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 Do you really need a parade to celebrate your sexuality?
Your one misteak is in asking the incorrect question. You should be asking why shouldn't people be allowed to have a parade about their sexuality? That is how freedom works. -Rho, not a hypocritical libertarian.
People have been having a parade about their sexuality in San Francisco for decades, now. Rho
I went to it. I didn't see anything wrong with it. so why shouldn't they just carry on? nobody is forcing you to watch it. I even got to see some lesbians flaunting their boobs. shame on them!
[/blockquote] In a round about way, this kind of stuff does affect me. When some people find out Im gay they instantly think of the flaming homos that theyve seen in pride parades and either its a complete turn off for them and dont want to have anything to do with me or they stereotype all gay people into that one category and think that we are all like that.

Im not trying to say shame on them. If this were a different time and political climate then yeah sure it doesnt hurt anyone so more power to ya. We're already fighting an uphill battle for equality, Its kind of hard to go to Congress(or any formal/serious setting) and ask for equal treatment when you have the image of gay people running around like small children in a candy store while barely wearing any clothes in the minds of the people you are trying to convince. People just dont take you seriously, they think you are a joke.

 

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 Do you really need a parade to celebrate your sexuality?
Your one misteak is in asking the incorrect question. You should be asking why shouldn't people be allowed to have a parade about their sexuality? That is how freedom works. -Rho, not a hypocritical libertarian.
People have been having a parade about their sexuality in San Francisco for decades, now. Rho
I went to it. I didn't see anything wrong with it. so why shouldn't they just carry on? nobody is forcing you to watch it. I even got to see some lesbians flaunting their boobs. shame on them!
[/blockquote] In a round about way, this kind of stuff does affect me. When some people find out Im gay they instantly think of the flaming homos that theyve seen in pride parades and either its a complete turn off for them and dont want to have anything to do with me or they stereotype all gay people into that one category and think that we are all like that.

Im not trying to say shame on them. If this were a different time and political climate then yeah sure it doesnt hurt anyone so more power to ya. We're already fighting an uphill battle for equality, Its kind of hard to go to Congress(or any formal/serious setting) and ask for equal treatment when you have the image of gay people running around like small children in a candy store while barely wearing any clothes in the minds of the people you are trying to convince. People just dont take you seriously, they think you are a joke.


This is the same reason that OWS gained no respect in the general population.

When it comes to swaying public opinion, image is everything.

 

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 Do you really need a parade to celebrate your sexuality?
Your one misteak is in asking the incorrect question. You should be asking why shouldn't people be allowed to have a parade about their sexuality? That is how freedom works. -Rho, not a hypocritical libertarian.
People have been having a parade about their sexuality in San Francisco for decades, now. Rho
I went to it. I didn't see anything wrong with it. so why shouldn't they just carry on? nobody is forcing you to watch it. I even got to see some lesbians flaunting their boobs. shame on them!
[/blockquote] In a round about way, this kind of stuff does affect me. When some people find out Im gay they instantly think of the flaming homos that theyve seen in pride parades and either its a complete turn off for them and dont want to have anything to do with me or they stereotype all gay people into that one category and think that we are all like that.

Im not trying to say shame on them. If this were a different time and political climate then yeah sure it doesnt hurt anyone so more power to ya. We're already fighting an uphill battle for equality, Its kind of hard to go to Congress(or any formal/serious setting) and ask for equal treatment when you have the image of gay people running around like small children in a candy store while barely wearing any clothes in the minds of the people you are trying to convince. People just dont take you seriously, they think you are a joke.


This is the same reason that OWS gained no respect in the general population.

When it comes to swaying public opinion, image is everything.


Very true, the extremes at the pride parade, while they are certainly allowed to express themselves in any way they feel it in fact hurts the very thing they are parading for. When people for the most part only see "gay people" in such a way it creates an image and when the image is like those linked earlier it's not a good way to show your best side. The reason that many people don't know more about gay people is that they are generally "normal" people and interact in a "normal" way and never think about it. I feel the parades would be a lot more effective if people did it dressed as they are any other day, but that is just my opinion. It would certainly shut up people who complain. The military stuff I could care less about, it's showing affection for your S/O and I'm not a huge fan of PDA from anyone but I understand the relief they felt when they were finally able to without having to worry about losing their jobs/careers.

 

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it also depends on your definition of "flaunting." To some people just seeing a gay couple kiss or hold hands in public is flaunting.  To me thats not, thats just being "normal" like any other straight couple would do.  

Now what they do at gay pride parades stripping down to their underwear and flying rainbow colored flags and streamers and crap like that can go stuff themselves.  They give the gay community a bad name.  Do you really need a parade to celebrate your sexuality?

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While i think it's wonderful that this could even happen (DADT was such a freaking joke, good riddance...), i do agree with the guy who said about PDA's in uniform. If a straight couple would get a bollocking for doing something, so should a gay couple. Otherwise you're taking it to the other extreme and letting gay couples get away with stuff straight couples cant. Equality should be true equality, IMO.

I agree with NON and Sooz.

I don't think I've ever said that before.

 

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I don't have a problem accepting that negative stereotypes are harmful. even stereotypes about math ability can influence performance on math tests- see stereotype threat.

the person that chooses to apply the stereotype is the real problem. it's a failure of categorical thinking. when we think in categories we tend to exaggerate the differences between categories and ignore the differences within groups. everyone should realize the limitations of categories and stereotypes in all aspects of life from sexuality to physics to business.

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it doesn't make sense to tell people to change their behavior because other people are failing at thinking clearly.
We were bound to agree on something eventually.

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i wish i were gay so i could walk around with a sense of entitlement

 

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And Rho, it's words like INSIST that make it clear you are a bigot. What he has been saying literally the whole time is "why shouldnt it be OK for gay people to be outgoing?" and you see that as INSISTING that gross gayness is EVERYWHERE and RUBBED in your face. You said something about assumptions? lol
And you seemed so good about going back and reading the thread. The insistence that this issue needs to be rubbed in our collective faces was exactly what he posted. No assuming necessary.

Your knickers seem to be in such a twist about this that you're making even less sense.

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Rhodoman posted:
TheNinthSeal posted:
And Rho, it's words like INSIST that make it clear you are a bigot. What he has been saying literally the whole time is "why shouldnt it be OK for gay people to be outgoing?" and you see that as INSISTING that gross gayness is EVERYWHERE and RUBBED in your face. You said something about assumptions? lol
And you seemed so good about going back and reading the thread. The insistence that this issue needs to be rubbed in our collective faces was exactly what he posted. No assuming necessary.

Your knickers seem to be in such a twist about this that you're making even less sense.

Rho


Oh you mean in the clearly over the top one? I was quoting you from something you said before he posted more than one word, and you are trying to say you were responding to what he said a few dozen posts later? Good critical thinking, bro.

 

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i wish i were gay so i could walk around with a sense of entitlement
yeah it totally is a sense of entitlement to feel entitled to kissing your SO in public without nasty/angry stares and people whispering behind your back while mothers scurry their children away from you while saying, "dont look at the two bad men!"

 

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From a military member's perspective:

I take it none of you guys have observed a military homecoming before? These are military people coming home from a deployment. They've been away from their families/friends/loved ones anywhere from 4-24 months. The military's PDA rules are relaxed dramatically at these events. Wives literally jump on their husbands all the time and ram their tongues down each others throats. In this regard, it's obviously no different.

But the repeal of DADT is new, which makes seeing two dudes or two chicks making out at one of these things new. It's not these 2 people that are making a statement. It's not the gay people of the world making a statement. It's the media blowing this out of proportion to get a rise out of the simple-minded people of this world so they can make retarded threads on gaming messageboards like this one. It's all over the news and social media because we haven't really seen an image like this before. Big deal.

Go back to reading Harry Potter, watching Firefly, or playing a Star Wars game.

 

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I want to be on page 3 also

 

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Kordirn posted:


You'd think the guy who railed against Caoilin for "misspelling" Intex's name wouldn't make the same mistake.



I did?

I don't remember this

I kind of like Caoilin now

after she let's her gaurd down, she's kind of cool

 

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I'm bothered by extreme PDA from any people, gay or straight.

 

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-TheHunt- posted:
From a military member's perspective:

I take it none of you guys have observed a military homecoming before? These are military people coming home from a deployment. They've been away from their families/friends/loved ones anywhere from 4-24 months. The military's PDA rules are relaxed dramatically at these events. Wives literally jump on their husbands all the time and ram their tongues down each others throats. In this regard, it's obviously no different.

But the repeal of DADT is new, which makes seeing two dudes or two chicks making out at one of these things new. It's not these 2 people that are making a statement. It's not the gay people of the world making a statement. It's the media blowing this out of proportion to get a rise out of the simple-minded people of this world so they can make retarded threads on gaming messageboards like this one. It's all over the news and social media because we haven't really seen an image like this before. Big deal.

Go back to reading Harry Potter, watching Firefly, or playing a Star Wars game.


Goddamn, couldn't agree more

 

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here's the clip of FYC trying to derail this thread

 

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So horrible. I can't stand people who return from a war zone being so emotional he publicly showed his affection for a loved one. How dare he.

 

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here's the clip of FYC trying to derail this thread





 

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Oh you mean in the clearly over the top one? I was quoting you from something you said before he posted more than one word, and you are trying to say you were responding to what he said a few dozen posts later? Good critical thinking, bro.
The knots you've tied yourself in, here, are beyond my untangling skills.

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You're just mad it is turning you on, aren't you combat?

AREN'T YOU?

Public PDA doesn't really bother me. Hell I do it [if I had a girlfriend]

Well depends on how far, some people take it a bit too far sometimes

 

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It's not these 2 people that are making a statement. It's not the gay people of the world making a statement. It's the media blowing this out of proportion to get a rise out of the simple-minded people of this world so they can make retarded threads on gaming messageboards like this one.

 

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The "love that dare not speak its name" (Oscar Wilde) has become the "love we can't get to sit down and shut up."

Rho


Yup those 2 people kissing... they should stop kissing and just sit down and shut up. This isn't what you mean, but this is how you come off with this reply to a story about 2 gay people kissing.

There is nothing here but normal human behavior, nothing is being shoved in your face.

The only reasonable target of your chagrin here is the media, for posting this story. But guess what? You don't have to read it. And interpreting it as some offense done by gay people makes you look dense, bigoted, or both. (I interpret it as being dense)

 

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-TheHunt- posted:
From a military member's perspective:

I take it none of you guys have observed a military homecoming before? These are military people coming home from a deployment. They've been away from their families/friends/loved ones anywhere from 4-24 months. The military's PDA rules are relaxed dramatically at these events. Wives literally jump on their husbands all the time and ram their tongues down each others throats. In this regard, it's obviously no different.

But the repeal of DADT is new, which makes seeing two dudes or two chicks making out at one of these things new. It's not these 2 people that are making a statement. It's not the gay people of the world making a statement. It's the media blowing this out of proportion to get a rise out of the simple-minded people of this world so they can make retarded threads on gaming messageboards like this one. It's all over the news and social media because we haven't really seen an image like this before. Big deal.

Go back to reading Harry Potter, watching Firefly, or playing a Star Wars game.
Yeah I mentioned this on like page one and was done with it, lol.

As for the public displays in day to day; I don't like it from anyone... gay, straight or someone loving up on their freaking dog in the park. Holding hands, a peck on the cheek or the like is cute (gay or straight) as it shows affection but any more than that is just disrespectful of those around you.

Again that is day to day. I have been the one returning during a homecoming more than once and I can tell you after 6 months or more all bets are off when you see your family for the first time and I'm cool with that.

 

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Rhodoman posted:
TheNinthSeal posted:
Oh you mean in the clearly over the top one? I was quoting you from something you said before he posted more than one word, and you are trying to say you were responding to what he said a few dozen posts later? Good critical thinking, bro.
The knots you've tied yourself in, here, are beyond my untangling skills.

Rho


lol, ok Rho, do your thing. "There are many paths to the same place" or something equally vague and meaningless. Listen to levgre, he is saying it better than I can.

 

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Thehunt wrote it best. Although the media blows so many things out of proportion, in comparison you don't read that much about homosexuals. It's interesting when people like Rho jump onto gay-topic stories so much faster.

Lokkie_the_Fierce posted:
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It's not these 2 people that are making a statement. It's not the gay people of the world making a statement. It's the media blowing this out of proportion to get a rise out of the simple-minded people of this world so they can make retarded threads on gaming messageboards like this one.

 

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I don't get it. Make this a man and a woman and you have a touching reunion to most Americans. Can someone explain why this is different?

 

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chicken

 

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chicken


page 3 nub!

 

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lol last time I opined on a "gay" thread, nonoffensivename threw a fit.

I will stay away from it this time, but my feelings have not changed.

 

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Oh hell.... I can't resist.

Gay people can do whatever the hell they want to do as far as I care, but it still disgusts me on a primal level.

This post will go to page 5 or 6 now for sure.

 

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Oh hell.... I can't resist.

Gay people can do whatever the hell they want to do as far as I care, but it still disgusts me on a primal level.




I think that's 'ok' as long as you don't focus on your disgust or build it into something else. Like if you see 2 guys kissing in a park, you have a choice. You can feel offended, or you can ignore it as much as possible. If you are unable to ignore 2 guys kissing, you might have some prejudice you have to deal with.

 

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Oh hell.... I can't resist.

Gay people can do whatever the hell they want to do as far as I care, but it still disgusts me on a primal level.

This post will go to page 5 or 6 now for sure.


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Oh hell.... I can't resist.

Gay people can do whatever the hell they want to do as far as I care, but it still disgusts me on a primal level.




I think that's 'ok' as long as you don't focus on your disgust or build it into something else. Like if you see 2 guys kissing in a park, you have a choice. You can feel offended, or you can ignore it as much as possible. If you are unable to ignore 2 guys kissing, you might have some prejudice you have to deal with.

I ignore it. We live in a free society and I don't believe that victimless behavior should be suppressed because one person doesn't "like it".

That being said, I don't agree with people shoving it down other people's throats either. Basically, if the "accepted group" can do it, then I think the "non-accepted" group should be able to do it, to the same extent as the accepted group.

So if a gay couple want to kiss in public, I don't care.
If they want to have sex in the Public Square, then they should be charged in the same way a straight couple would be.

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levgre posted:
-Mithan- posted:
Oh hell.... I can't resist.

Gay people can do whatever the hell they want to do as far as I care, but it still disgusts me on a primal level.




I think that's 'ok' as long as you don't focus on your disgust or build it into something else. Like if you see 2 guys kissing in a park, you have a choice. You can feel offended, or you can ignore it as much as possible. If you are unable to ignore 2 guys kissing, you might have some prejudice you have to deal with.

I ignore it. We live in a free society and I don't believe that victimless behavior should be suppressed because one person doesn't "like it".

That being said, I don't agree with people shoving it down other people's throats either. Basically, if the "accepted group" can do it, then I think the "non-accepted" group should be able to do it, to the same extent as the accepted group.

So if a gay couple want to kiss in public, I don't care.
If they want to have sex in the Public Square, then they should be charged in the same way a straight couple would be.

Make sense?


Wow, that's harsh dude. Why you hatin' on straight couples having sex in Public Square?

 

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