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Subject: How long can you keep up friendships with people who clearly don't understand you anymore?
I have a couple I've kept going just because they were close in the past and still reach out to me, but sometimes they say some really stupid things that make it clear they don't know me at all anymore. Sometimes it feels like there's no point to it.

 

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Subject: How long can you keep up friendships with people who clearly don't understand you anymore?
Your thread title makes you sound like a woman.

 

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Subject: How long can you keep up friendships with people who clearly don't understand you anymore?
Huh, what'd ya say?

 

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Subject: How long can you keep up friendships with people who clearly don't understand you anymore?
Cawlin posted:
Your thread title makes you sound like a woman.


So what?

 

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Subject: How long can you keep up friendships with people who clearly don't understand you anymore?
It completely depends on whether the friendship can adapt/evolve. Since it seems there is not enough there otherwise, like shared activities/interests.

 

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Subject: How long can you keep up friendships with people who clearly don't understand you anymore?
BritonGuy posted:
Cawlin posted:
Your thread title makes you sound like a woman.


So what?


applause


The answer to your question is: who cares?

As a guy you never have to officially "break" a friendship, you just sorta stop hanging out with them.

 

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You just walk up to them and say, "I break with thee. I break with thee. I break with thee." and then you throw dog poop on their shoes.

Rho

 

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For decades.

 

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OG_Loki posted:
For decades.
I love ya, man. But you still can't have my Bud Light.

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never expect to be understood clown

 

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BritonGuy posted:
I have a couple I've kept going just because they were close in the past and still reach out to me, but sometimes they say some really stupid things that make it clear they don't know me at all anymore. Sometimes it feels like there's no point to it.


One lifetime isnt all that long...

 

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learn to appreciate them in a different way, or lose them... but don't subject yourself to idiots if you can help it.

 

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To some friends are like kleenex, use them once and then throw them away.

 

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Jezza_Belle posted:
learn to appreciate them in a different way, or lose them... but don't subject yourself to idiots if you can help it.



He posts here, I think he likes doing that.

 

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Anebriated posted:
never expect to be understood clown


Not fully understood, but a very basic understanding that 5 minutes with fresh eyes would give. Some people just can't evolve.

 

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Delete and block them on Facebook. Stop responding to their calls/texts. Problem solved.

Tempora mutantur, et nos mutamur in illis

 

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.-Vega-. posted:
Delete and block them on Facebook. Stop responding to their calls/texts. Problem solved.

Tempora mutantur, et nos mutamur in illis


Should I work out and lawyer up too?

 

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I may not understand you anymore BritonGuy, but I will always love you. love

 

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nice drunk post Kord. I drunk love you too.

 

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I don't even drunk love you

 

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I'll value your drunken hate just the same.

 

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i have the same problem. ALL of my friends from high school still pester me and won't fking go away, even when i ignore them and never show up to hang out with them.

 

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If we stop understanding each other for about 4 minutes, that's about the end of it.

 

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