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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
You can never get a hold of him when you need to.

When he says he'll be in the area for 3 days, he might not even stop in. If he does, you'll never know until he's there.

Every time he breaks up with someone, he moves into our house for awhile until he finds a new place.

He can afford a decent place if he worked 10-15 hours a week, just enough to supplement his 15k/year pension. But, he hates authority and having to take instructions from anyone... but chooses not to.



I feel like the father figure of my wife's father... It's strange.

"Doesn't it make it weird though? He might hear you guys having sex." - Co-worker
"I sure hope he does... maybe he'll learn not to move back in." - Me

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
Or be like a man and say "No, you've done enough mooching. Go mooch someone or be a man."

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
That would be sweet if my kids would let me come live with them whenever I wanted.


of course, I raised them not to be giant pussy pushovers.

grow a pair, tell him no.

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
I really love the ACF mentality.

It's pretty funny to observe.



I still receive monetary compensation from him. $500/month + his share of anything stocked for food. It's not like it's a free ride (which makes it more confusing as to why he keeps needing to come back).

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
Well, you didn't include that tidbit about the $500 so...

But my original response stands... Time to tell him off...

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
-Kruugar- posted:
I really love the ACF mentality.

It's pretty funny to observe.



I still receive monetary compensation from him. $500/month + his share of anything stocked for food. It's not like it's a free ride (which makes it more confusing as to why he keeps needing to come back).




he wants to be near family, when HE wants to be near family.

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
So what does your wife's father think about his landlord who gets timely rent but complains about him on the internet anyways?

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
he gives you 500 big ones that should be no complaints.

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
-Kruugar- posted:
I really love the ACF mentality.






INORITE, outing yourself by omitting details and then pointing fingers at others is crazy ironing!



 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
I smell a three-some!

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
Webscar posted:
I smell a three-some!



That is probably just the two cheetohs you lost last week wedged under one of your upper rolls.

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
If he pays you rent I would just suck it up. However, maybe it is a good idea for him to try and get some subsidized housing so he doesn't keep moving around. Check out and see if there are some tax credit properties in your area that offer reduced rent to low-income individuals. As well, I assume he is a senior so he will qualify to live in 55+ subsidized rentals.

That or build a mother in law suite on the back of your property and get him out of your house.

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
Dude how old is your wife then?

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
Dude, grow a pair and kick that guy out of YOUR house.

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
I don't think I could handle that... even if he was paying rent...

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
Yah I got a mooch like that too, only mine is always asking for money.

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
Aethelgrin posted:
Dude how old is your wife then?


We are both 27

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
Shazami posted:
Or be like a man and say "No, you've done enough mooching. Go mooch someone or be a man."


Bam.

 

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Subject: My wife's father is like a deadbeat 18-24 year old.
He's family and if your wife likes him staying for those periods, then live with it for her sakes, life is short, one day he won't be coming back.

 

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does he roll a fatty?

 

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Hyperimiator posted:
He's family and if your wife likes him staying for those periods, then live with it for her sakes, life is short, one day he won't be coming back.




It is for my wife's sake. She worries about him because he gets pretty morbid about his existence. Doesn't want him to do something stupid.

She doesn't like him staying but wants to make sure he's ok and help him transition.

My little guys like having him (1 and 3).

 

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