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And seek them out. Why?
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I believe I fall into this category...
It helps keep things fresh and romantic... It also cuts down on the OMG I have to be with you 24/7.
If you can't sustain a long distance relationship, then there is no relationship.
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i think it depends on the distance.
10 miles is awesome.
100 miles is retarded. why the fuck would anyone drive a hundred miles just to get laid?
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It's fear of intimate relationships.
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It's fear of intimate relationships.
Just the opposite actually.
When you are physically close it's easy to fake the intimacy and connectedness.
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sweeny_comodore posted:
i think it depends on the distance.
10 miles is awesome.
100 miles is retarded. why the fuck would anyone drive a hundred miles just to get laid?
Hahah 100 miles...
That's not a long distance relationship...
Try 7,000 miles and traveling just to spend a week, or a birthday with them without sex involved!
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sounds pretty gay reese.. you know from experience?
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sweeny_comodore posted:
i think it depends on the distance.
10 miles is awesome.
100 miles is retarded. why the fuck would anyone drive a hundred miles just to get laid?
Hahah 100 miles...
That's not a long distance relationship...
Try 7,000 miles and traveling just to spend a week, or a birthday with them without sex involved!
if i wouldnt drive 100 i sure as fuck wouldnt fly 7k to NOT get laid
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reesescups posted:
sweeny_comodore posted:
i think it depends on the distance.
10 miles is awesome.
100 miles is retarded. why the fuck would anyone drive a hundred miles just to get laid?
Hahah 100 miles...
That's not a long distance relationship...
Try 7,000 miles and traveling just to spend a week, or a birthday with them without sex involved!
that's just stupid and doesn't qualify as a relationship unless it's your mom.
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IMHO posted:
It's fear of intimate relationships.
Just the opposite actually.
When you are physically close it's easy to fake the intimacy and connectedness.
That's true, it's much harder to fake intimacy from 7k miles away.... 
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Long distance (flight required) is more of a fantasy... None of it is real.
Long distance - like nearest city 40 to 70 miles) is a big pain in the ass. You can see each other as often as you want but its a pain and might as well be 500 miles away. A 500 mile roundtrip flight bought in advance is a $150.. As much as gas. You can do weekend trips.
A 7000 mile ldr is insane, you can only visit once every 3 to 6 months. No point unless youre getting married or something.
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I can see that most of you are still trying to figure out how to sow your seeds...
It's ok - a lot of you inexperienced 'youngings' get tripped up and fall into relationships that you can't control just because you are always looking for quick pussy...
I'm a bit older, been around the block a few times, got a few comma's under my belt notch. Don't give a shit about your judgements...
When you find the right person you will realize distance doesn't matter and that intimacy takes on a hole new level...
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A 7000 mile ldr is insane, you can only visit once every 3 to 6 months. No point unless youre getting married or something.
If you aren't looking to get married or something it's not a relationship, it's just a convenient piece of ass...
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IMHO posted:
reesescups posted:
IMHO posted:
It's fear of intimate relationships.
Just the opposite actually.
When you are physically close it's easy to fake the intimacy and connectedness.
That's true, it's much harder to fake intimacy from 7k miles away....
So you'd be willing to maintain a BS relationship with someone you knew you weren't gonna fuck just because you wanted to fake some intimacy?
You are either in it to win it or you are fronting some bullshit...
Holy Christ you are a twisted and effed up individual. I hope we never have the opportunity to meet face to face - you are like a Dahmer or some shit.
Effing sociopath.
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commencing a relationship with someone that far away is difficult. If you or your partner have to move its a different story i reckon
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Reese likes to use the computer to chat with his girlfriend when he is away.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=maNnLb3apSI
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It seems like a way to have a safe relationship which really isnt a real relationship. Sure you meet every so often, rarely for little vacations together in the case of a couple living thousands of miles away, both other than that you live totally separate lives without the big downsides of living together or even living very close to each other.
This woman who lives on the East Coast suggested last night we meet in the Midwest for a date and when I said no she then said she was just joking. There are tons of men on the East Coast.
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I can see that most of you are still trying to figure out how to sow your seeds...
It's ok - a lot of you inexperienced 'youngings' get tripped up and fall into relationships that you can't control just because you are always looking for quick pussy...
I'm a bit older, been around the block a few times, got a few comma's under my belt notch. Don't give a shit about your judgements...
When you find the right person you will realize distance doesn't matter and that intimacy takes on a hole new level...
I think, you mean "whole." Freudian slip much?
As for "youngings", I'm 46 and when I flew to Spain to see my girlfriend (that I went to HS with and met up with 20 years later) we sure as hell had "intimate" moments that were very special because we knew we weren't seeing each other for a month or more.
If you found the right person, she/he/it lives thousands of miles away and you're not getting any - something's wrong.
I'm thinking "she's" trying to hide a penis...
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Reese likes to use the computer to chat with his girlfriend when he is away.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=maNnLb3apSI
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Jaedence posted:
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I can see that most of you are still trying to figure out how to sow your seeds...
It's ok - a lot of you inexperienced 'youngings' get tripped up and fall into relationships that you can't control just because you are always looking for quick pussy...
I'm a bit older, been around the block a few times, got a few comma's under my belt notch. Don't give a shit about your judgements...
When you find the right person you will realize distance doesn't matter and that intimacy takes on a hole new level...
I think, you mean "whole." Freudian slip much?
As for "youngings", I'm 46 and when I flew to Spain to see my girlfriend (that I went to HS with and met up with 20 years later) we sure as hell had "intimate" moments that were very special because we knew we weren't seeing each other for a month or more.
If you found the right person, she/he/it lives thousands of miles away and you're not getting any - something's wrong.
I'm thinking "she's" trying to hide a penis...
haha whole hole - you get the idea... But yeah a telling slip for sure...
Just because there isn't intercourse doesn't mean there isn't some fun times being had...
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So you'd be willing to maintain a BS relationship with someone you knew you weren't gonna fuck just because you wanted to fake some intimacy?
You are either in it to win it or you are fronting some bullshit...
Holy Christ you are a twisted and effed up individual. I hope we never have the opportunity to meet face to face - you are like a Dahmer or some shit.
Effing sociopath.
WOW comparing me to Jeffery Dahmer 
I suppose I did eviscerate your argument.
Look..
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Some people seem to like long distance relationships, And seek them out. Why?
It only makes sense that people that seek out long distance relationships have a fear of intimacy. Intimacy is being close to another. You can't be close to some one 7k miles away. Sure there are exceptions. But if you are seeking out people that can't be close to you...
It's not rocket science.
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Intimacy isn't just about being physically close to someone.
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Seething199 posted:
reesescups posted:
Hahah 100 miles...
That's not a long distance relationship...
Try 7,000 miles and traveling just to spend a week, or a birthday with them without sex involved!
that's just stupid and doesn't qualify as a relationship unless it's your mom.
Trust me, if you fly 7,000 miles to see Reese's mom, sex WILL be involved! 
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Still, there's no such thing as a "convenient piece of ass" that's 7,000 KM away from you. lol
Seriously, my idea of convenient is one speed dial button away from a great blow job and awesome sex.
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Intimacy isn't just about being physically close to someone.
http://www.onlinepsychic.com/
They do readings over the telephone
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IMHO posted:
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Intimacy isn't just about being physically close to someone.
http://www.onlinepsychic.com/
They do readings over the telephone
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A big part of a real relationship is all the tedium and challenges that come with co-existing on a daily basis.
If you aren't sharing your life with someone, but select portions of it (and the best portions of it to boot), I'm not sure you can call it a real relationship.
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In my experience, long distance relationship = "people holding on too long"
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In my experience, long distance relationship = "ex breaks in to steal my camera"
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I find long distance relationships just to be torture. Always sitting there wishing you can be with them. No thanks.
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I've been dating a woman for over a year now and she has lived out of state that entire time. It is both easy and difficult. It's easy because when you see each other it is always an event and feels like an exciting vacation. Without the daily interactions, it is more of a movie relationship. It is more difficult because finding ways and means to see each other at least every month becomes a major pita, and daily contact has to account for time zones and work/commitment schedules for each of us. Also it is stressful in the sense that, with hard work and effort, she will be relocating here on the basis of the relationship, which we both know may not stand up to the pressure once she's here.
Most long distance relationships fail, and I can't say I recommend them generally.
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