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__Bonk__ 
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Subject: Too busy to date
It seems like many of the people on Match.com really are too busy to date. The woman I talked to last night said men she met were that way too. Funny thing was she is that way too. She works seven days a week and does stuff many times at night too. When does she have time to date?

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When you have enough money that she doesn't have to work.

 

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She has plenty of time to date, it's just a way for her to have a built in excuse not to see anyone except on her terms and when she wants it to happen.

It' control, not lack of time.

 

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What Ptilk said.

 

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__Bonk__ 
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Ptilk posted:
She has plenty of time to date, it's just a way for her to have a built in excuse not to see anyone except on her terms and when she wants it to happen.

It' control, not lack of time.
applause grin

She was also a half hour late to the date saying she forgot the time and thought it was at 730 not 700

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Well at least you didn't stand her up at 7:15 this time.

 

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__Bonk__ 
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lol I told her about that lol

I emailed her and then when I got no response I left at a half hour and the restaurant called me and told me she was waiting there lol

We had a great date but I still dont know if she wants to make the time to date me more.

My dates are getting better and more fun

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Just tell her to call you if she ever has the time....then start on the next one. Who knows? Maybe she will take you up on it.

 

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I'd move on from that lady. If someone wants to see me they need to make time for me, as I will make time for them. I am not "fitting" myself into anyone's schedule.

 

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People say they are too busyto date as an excuse for why they dont put themselves out there. Its a better excuse than 'im depressed' or 'im heart broken'. So too busy is a big catchall for a lot of reasons.

 

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__Bonk__ 
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We seemed to hit it off but I think she doesnt want a relationship. I've run into many people like this.

I'm going to keep trying with other women. Love to have a relationship with her if she finds the time. She isnt stunningly beautiful but she has a nice personality and is easy to talk to

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I think all the Outposters above are telling you that they have the time Bonk......................................

 

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sick

I find being too busy is very common on Match.com. If a she really likes me, which she obviously doesnt, she will find the time to see me

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I dated a girl that used that line once.

She was married.

Being too busy meant I only have certain times I can sneak away. Check her ring finger for the ole' indention.

 

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