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She succumbed to life long diabetes. Too much was going wrong at one time and her body couldn't recover.
I got to spend all day Sunday, through the night and all day Monday by her side until she died at 7:16.
She was an amazing person who did so much for so many and was always willing to give more of herself. She was only 47, far too young to have left us. She leaves behind 8 kids and 5 grandkids (1 deceased).
She was, fortunately, able to witness my oldest daughter's marriage as she and her fiance moved heaven and earth to move up their wedding date and hold it in my wife's hospital room. Kingston Hospital was great about letting 20 or so people pack into my wife's small ICU room or stand in the hall outside as the ceremony was performed. My daughter held my wife's hand as the ceremony was performed.
My wife was able to tell me, "I'm happy", after the ceremony was over. She passed less than an hour later.
My daughter and her fiance gave us an amazing gift, for which I'll forever be grateful.
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Wow Clav, I am incredibly sorry to hear about your loss, I cannot imagine what you are going for.
Cherish the time you had together. The fact that your daughter was able to move the wedding is amazing.
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Very sad to hear this, my condolences.
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Your wife did get a tremendous gift in the hospital I cannot think of anything more special!
I know with complete certainty, that you were the best partner that she could have ever asked for!
Warmest thoughts and prayers to you and your family in this difficult time
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Sorry to hear... Death sucks and when someones 47 its almost unfair.
Not sure I would be to happy if I myself or a family member of mine was in the ICU and 20 people walked in for no reason but all in all at least she was happy.
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Craig,
Really sorry to hear that, it is very sad indeed.
I do not know you but my thoughts are with you and your family.
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riu posted:
Sorry to hear... Death sucks and when someones 47 its almost unfair.
Not sure I would be to happy if I myself or a family member of mine was in the ICU and 20 people walked in for no reason but all in all at least she was happy.
was for there daughter's impromptu wedding, I would say that is a very good reason
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I get that and im not saying it was a bad thing... Im just saying the point of ICU is close watch and isolation. Wouldnt want that many people around increasing chance of infection. Last thing you need is more contamination when your in the ICU.
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So sorry for your loss...it's unimaginable. Sounds like she left behind a wonderful legacy of kids and grandkids though who will keep her memory alive. May your family be able to remember all the good and forget the bad.
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My condolences for you and your family's loss. 47 is too young. It was indeed a blessing to her to have a family that made her final hours happy! May your memories of your time together comfort you and strengthen you during the tough days ahead.
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Thank you all! My mother will surely be missed and never forgotten!!
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wow so srry to hear chen and clav.
that wedding must have been the biggest joy in her life
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Sorry about this. Mother of a friend of mine just died; he too was to be married, but when it was learned that his mother had only six months, the couple somehow quickly moved the wedding so that the mother could witness it. She died exactly a month later. She was only in her mid 50s if I recall. It's so sad when this sort of thing happens.
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xoxoxoxo so sorry to hear about your loss xox
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sorry for your loss u and urs will be in my prayers
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That really sucks man, im so sorry. Don't give up, it sounds like you still have alot of people who need your love and support.
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It's terrible to lose her so young, but I'm sure that if we were given the choice, her final hours were what many of us would choose. Surrounded by friends and family, filled with joy at a new beginning - it sounds like it was just what she needed to be at peace with taking the next step. I offer both condolences and congratulations, because life is a mixed bag like that.
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Clav, I don't remember you or recognize the name for some reason but you and your family will be in my prayers and I'm truly sorry for your loss.
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She succumbed to life long diabetes. Too much was going wrong at one time and her body couldn't recover.
I got to spend all day Sunday, through the night and all day Monday by her side until she died at 7:16.
She was an amazing person who did so much for so many and was always willing to give more of herself. She was only 47, far too young to have left us. She leaves behind 8 kids and 5 grandkids (1 deceased).
She was, fortunately, able to witness my oldest daughter's marriage as she and her fiance moved heaven and earth to move up their wedding date and hold it in my wife's hospital room. Kingston Hospital was great about letting 20 or so people pack into my wife's small ICU room or stand in the hall outside as the ceremony was performed. My daughter held my wife's hand as the ceremony was performed.
My wife was able to tell me, "I'm happy", after the ceremony was over. She passed less than an hour later.
My daughter and her fiance gave us an amazing gift, for which I'll forever be grateful.
Craig
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Wow Clav, I am incredibly sorry to hear about your loss, I cannot imagine what you are going for.
Cherish the time you had together. The fact that your daughter was able to move the wedding is amazing.
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Very sad to hear this, my condolences.
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Your wife did get a tremendous gift in the hospital I cannot think of anything more special!
I know with complete certainty, that you were the best partner that she could have ever asked for!
Warmest thoughts and prayers to you and your family in this difficult time
Truly...
~Murron~
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Sorry to hear... Death sucks and when someones 47 its almost unfair.
Not sure I would be to happy if I myself or a family member of mine was in the ICU and 20 people walked in for no reason but all in all at least she was happy.
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Craig,
Really sorry to hear that, it is very sad indeed.
I do not know you but my thoughts are with you and your family.
Pat
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riu posted:
Sorry to hear... Death sucks and when someones 47 its almost unfair.
Not sure I would be to happy if I myself or a family member of mine was in the ICU and 20 people walked in for no reason but all in all at least she was happy.
was for there daughter's impromptu wedding, I would say that is a very good reason
Sorry to hear
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I get that and im not saying it was a bad thing... Im just saying the point of ICU is close watch and isolation. Wouldnt want that many people around increasing chance of infection. Last thing you need is more contamination when your in the ICU.
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So sorry for your loss...it's unimaginable. Sounds like she left behind a wonderful legacy of kids and grandkids though who will keep her memory alive. May your family be able to remember all the good and forget the bad.
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My condolences for you and your family's loss. 47 is too young. It was indeed a blessing to her to have a family that made her final hours happy! May your memories of your time together comfort you and strengthen you during the tough days ahead.
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Thank you all! My mother will surely be missed and never forgotten!!
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wow so srry to hear chen and clav.
that wedding must have been the biggest joy in her life
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Sorry about this. Mother of a friend of mine just died; he too was to be married, but when it was learned that his mother had only six months, the couple somehow quickly moved the wedding so that the mother could witness it. She died exactly a month later. She was only in her mid 50s if I recall. It's so sad when this sort of thing happens.
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xoxoxoxo so sorry to hear about your loss xox
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sorry for your loss u and urs will be in my prayers
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That really sucks man, im so sorry. Don't give up, it sounds like you still have alot of people who need your love and support.
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It's terrible to lose her so young, but I'm sure that if we were given the choice, her final hours were what many of us would choose. Surrounded by friends and family, filled with joy at a new beginning - it sounds like it was just what she needed to be at peace with taking the next step. I offer both condolences and congratulations, because life is a mixed bag like that.
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Clav, I don't remember you or recognize the name for some reason but you and your family will be in my prayers and I'm truly sorry for your loss.
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